My bf of one year broke up w/ me and is now refusing to talk to me cause he thinks I lied to him about who I was talking to on the phone. I wasn't lying! There's only so many ways I can say I was talking to one person and not another. He said he asked my sister who I was on the phone w/ and she said who I really talking to but said before I was talking to my kids dad. Now he says he doesn't trust me and will never believe anything I say. I really love this man and thought we'd be together forever. Now he says he just wants me to leave him alone. I Can't! What can I do to prove I'm not lying about who I was talking to?
2006-09-13 07:34:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he loves you hell forgive you, wait for him..and if its not meant to be the forget about him...
2006-09-13 07:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRUST and HONESTY are the biggest part of any relationship. If you don't have them then there is no point in continuing a relationship. You find yourselves in a destructive downward spiral that no one will be able to rescue you from. Having children who like it or not are a part of this relationship don't need to witness what seems to be a constant rollercoaster for you. Take a step back and look at where you are and where you are going, if you can live with it and be happy then make it work. If it is too exhausting to make it work then let it go.
2006-09-13 13:10:42 · answer #2 · answered by eman1205 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men want honesty in a woman 1 lie and they feel like youll always lie and he cant go through that. he must of had a reason especially after a year of dating a good reason not to trust you. If theres an ex hes worried about probably thats the real reason he dont want to deal with cant blame him on that.
2006-09-13 07:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by alwayssmiling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can prove it.... you say you love him.... if he feels the same about you.... try again and again to talk to him... say that you deserve that after all! Say to him that you love him more than everything in the world... and he must love you too otherwise he wouldn't be that jealous..(!say that to him!)-(BUT BE CARE FULL: I think he overreacted for a simple phone-call, which maybe means that he is not just jealous he may envies you!) anyway: And say to him that if he loves you too truly he must believe you and stop that attitude that probably hurts you both... tell him to think it rationally... and he will see that you are right.... explain him your point of view but for goodness sake don't lose your temper!!!!!! If he doesn't appreciate your attitude it means you don't deserve to him! and that he puts his egoism above your love... ( hope I 've helped you.. good luck..!)
2006-09-13 07:52:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's a bit insecure and immature!! Nothing you can do or say will convince him. Even if you do, this time, there'll be plenty more times for him to accuse you of things you didn't do. I would leave him alone and move on! This will be a never-ending battle!! Been there, done that!!
2006-09-13 07:38:24 · answer #5 · answered by Petey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This totally sounds like he is trying his best to FIND a reason to argue and break up! Thats the silliest reason i ever heard of being mad at someone and breaking up with them after a year over!!!! Just seems like he is looking for a reason to get out! The only thing u can do is give him space.
2006-09-13 07:37:29 · answer #6 · answered by cstinkerbell6969 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he doesnt wanna be with you anymore and used the whole phone thing and lying as a reason to break it off..
besides if someone would be that petty theres no point in maintaining a relationship.. i mean how would he handle something happening that was actually serious
2006-09-13 07:37:49 · answer #7 · answered by dropped_skittles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hopefully its not the case but when guys do things like that, they wanted to break up with you and was just looking for a reason to make it seem like its your fault. Hopefully he will come around because you really care about him and just give him space right now. Men don't like to be wrong. If and he does care about you he'll be back.
F>U>C>K his head up ask him who the hell he talks to. He wouldn't like that
2006-09-13 07:40:51 · answer #8 · answered by trice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK listen you have to ask yourself why is he so suspicious of you? is it because he feels guilty himself of what he has been doing? and ask yourself this if he can let u go over one stinking phone call when he don't even know for sure who you were talking to he is not the kind of guy who will stick by you through it all and is not worth one more day of your time let him go
2006-09-13 07:39:16 · answer #9 · answered by dydy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you can do. MAybe when your phone bill comes, show him the number that was on teh line at the time that he accused you of talking to your babys daddy. besides that, hes obviously making reasons to fight with you. so maybe there are other issues you two need to resolve first.
2006-09-13 07:37:30 · answer #10 · answered by -*~KrissyJo~*- 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know i don't think you should do anything if this guy doesn't trust you your relationship is doomed it's always going to be a problem trust me i know been there done that when there is no trust it doesn't matter how much you love him is just not gonna work out!
2006-09-13 07:38:58 · answer #11 · answered by ♥♥♥♥♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋