my ex boyfriend asked me back out last week and i said no becuz i went out with him and got in trouble for sneaking a round. its not that i wanted to say no but i had to. i told him we could still be friends friends with benefits or do the same things we were doing before but not have the tiltle of bf and gf but now he is walking around texing me and asking me if i like him or if i am thinking about him and i am i am always dreaming about us together intamately but he is saying that girls he knows aren't into him are and the laugh in his face if it keep shappening im gonna be the one who has to pick up the pieces. should i spend my time on it or should i move on. i reall ylike him and i know he needs me. what do i do?
2006-09-13 07:33:29 · 10 answers · asked by *unknown* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know u have alot of feelings for him cuz you shared a year with him BUT dont fall into being his booty call- u deserve sooo much better than that! YOU will have to pick up the peices if ALL the other girls keep turning him down? GOD NO! Girl it sounds like he is using you for a last minute resort and booty call. Let him go and find a guy who loves u and respects you for who u are! Life is too short to be with someone who treats u that way! RUN!
2006-09-13 07:41:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on darling. Sounds like you have an insecure ex boyfriend. Keep him as an ex, if not you'll suffer for the rest of the relationship.
2006-09-13 14:38:08 · answer #2 · answered by Chanel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be w/ him. You feel something for him or you wouldn't agree to the friends w/ benefits thing or to doing things the same as you did before. See what happens. You didn't mention how old you are though. I'd go for it.
2006-09-13 14:38:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and forget about him...Why give yourself the problem of being there for him...He is a big boy and as soon as he meets someone, you will be history. Consider that.
2006-09-13 14:36:19 · answer #4 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u said no initially right?????????????ok girl according to the rules nobody gets back abter breaking up.....but hey its clear dat u aint over him....so its gonna be difficult to remain friends too right?....so heres a suggestion..either u say bye bye to him n move on completely( ie dont even acknowledge his presence) or get back together with him(ie start goin out wit him again)....watever..dont hang in mid air like this...ur leading him on plus ur accomplishing nothin with urself either.....
ultimately its your decision...all da best
2006-09-13 14:40:18 · answer #5 · answered by sah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like this boy then be there for him & look after him.If you want to give it another go, why not? you only have one life so why not make the most of it? xx
2006-09-13 14:38:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on!
2006-09-13 14:35:44 · answer #7 · answered by Help??? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're easy. That's why he keeps in touch.
2006-09-13 14:36:41 · answer #8 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him ok way treating you
2006-09-13 14:36:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...what a jerk.
2006-09-13 14:36:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋