Im kinda talking to this guy, and my friend is talking to his room mate. So his room mate invites my friend over the apt. to chill with him and when she gets there the guys im talking to's ex is there and she stayed the night. My friend told me about it but i never said anything to him. He told me later that she was there and it was because she got into a fight with her parents and she just showed up and that shes crazy and he felt bad for her. Give me some thoughts on this? Should i be mad??? Did he only tell me that because he knew my friend would tell me??
2006-09-13 07:21:59 · 13 answers · asked by Lek 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like a big story to me. She's in a fight with her parents and only had him to run to?!? and she HAD to spend the night there too? Yeah, sure. I wouldn't believe a word of it.
2006-09-13 07:25:27 · answer #1 · answered by Astro 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he only told you cos he knew you'd find out. I don't know about these guys who dont' shut the door on their exes - I'd been dating a guy for over a month & found out he was still dog-sitting for his ex - she would come over & drop them off & pick them up. Really, tho, since you're only "kinda talking" to this guy, you don' t have a lot of room to go off cos he had an ex over. If you were together, yeah. I think I would ask him about it - I mean, did they sleep together? She stayed the night, but where did she sleep? is he still hung up on her? Is she gonna keep runnin to him every time she has parent trouble? I think you should get all of that straight before going much further with this dude. Good luck.
2006-09-13 07:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she stay the night in his room or in the sofa?? Honestly if that were me I can't even stand it that he still talk to his ex rathner than spending the night in his place.... I'm sure your bf won't do anything or hurt you with the ex because your friend are there... I guess he did it because he feel bad about his ex and trying to be nice.. So if you really don't want it to happen the next time be mad or give him silent treatment...
2006-09-13 07:30:16 · answer #3 · answered by funkysha916 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how serious the two of you are. If no type of commitment has been made you have no right to be mad.
KEY WORD HERE IS:SHE IS CRAZY
You need to stay away from this situation because if she just shows up like that then it's not going to stop.
Back away from the situation and just be casual friends nothing more.
The EX will be a big problem
2006-09-13 07:25:30 · answer #4 · answered by miss_lady6980 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The guy you were talking to is still involved with his ex. Don't get mad, just dump the guy and find someone who respects ladies.
2006-09-13 07:30:06 · answer #5 · answered by mktbsh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give the guy a chance. there are some crazy girls out there, but if your into him, tell him. make sure he knows that you have feelings and that if he wants to be w/ u, then things like that cant happen anymore.
2006-09-13 07:25:11 · answer #6 · answered by -*~KrissyJo~*- 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he's still sleeping with her, sorry but i think is one of relationships were he's never gonna get over he's ex and she's always gonna be around, my advise to you is find some one else whose heart is just for you!!
2006-09-13 07:29:12 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥♥♥♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i mean i would be. i personally don't like to get invited to places and then get ignored or get the spotlight not on me. i mean that's not right. and i am not quite sure why he told you that. i mean nothing probally happened but i would still be upset i mean that's just not right.
2006-09-13 07:24:56 · answer #8 · answered by polobaby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does it really matter. Is this As the Friends turn Soap Opera???
2006-09-13 07:23:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
,Well at least he was smart enough to mention it before your friend did. Give it some time the truth shall reveal itself!
2006-09-13 07:26:19 · answer #10 · answered by M D 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋