I see a nice girl sitting at a cafe...(i don't see no ring on her finger).. I buy flowers from a shop near-by put a small card in it (with my mobile number)....Walk up to her and say,
"Hi..... i saw sitting there from across the street.....You looked so beautiful..that I just had to give you these flowers"
and then walk away.....hoping for that call...
Do women like that....or do they think its too 'mushy'
2006-09-13 07:20:02 · 40 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hate being given flowers - sorry
2006-09-13 07:24:40 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.... without any conversations prior to getting the flowers, I would wonder why he gave me the flowers. I understand, he may have thought I was attractive, but it takes some kinda of connection to want to go out with someone, and it's usually how well you converse with one another. I wouldn't call him, because I think that sends the wrong message to guys. I really believe a man should take the first step by calling a woman. I think it sets boundaries. I don't call guys, because I don't believe in chasing men. I will return calls, but I give them number when asked. I think there is a time for romantic gestures, however, when you first meet someone and acting all romantic usually scares girls away. It's hard enough to meet a guy who will call when he says he will, and then here comes one who is throwing flowers your way. Yeah... it would probably freak out most girls.
2006-09-13 09:35:57 · answer #2 · answered by junebug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, lose the flowers and card, just walk up tell her you saw her sitting there from across the street and interested in getting to know her better. Give her your number and ask her to give you a call sometime.
2006-09-13 07:24:30 · answer #3 · answered by heaven o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok whilst the sentiment behind it is lovely, it might be a bit freaky at the same time. I mean personally if a guy did that to me Id be well flattered but in this day and age you dont actually know if its safe!!!! So depending on how brave she is she may call, but again personally speaking Id prefer it if you'd just have approached me and said that you had seen me and felt compelled to speak to me or something along that line - then at least if I was interested back, we could have a bit of a conversation and there'd be a bit more familiarity there.
2006-09-13 21:29:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's to aggressive and a little scary... I wouldn't I would be a little freaked out.
Why don't you try this.
Walk over to her and say "sorry if I'm interrupting but I saw you sitting here and had to say HI. Would it be okay if I gave you my number so I could find out a little more about this person with a beautiful face?"
Your still showing your interest but your not coming on to strong and you leave a good impression by being respectful, then the ball is in her court and if she's anything like me you've left me intrigued enough to want to call you and find out more about you.
2006-09-13 07:27:33 · answer #5 · answered by :)*taurus tease*(: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a bit mushy and a bit creepy, (nice and romantic in a safe world though) best to accidentally knock the table and apologise giving her an extra long glance, if she returns your glance and smiles at you - then go and get her the flowers with an apology and a phone number saying it was destiny or something that made you bump into her but if she just glaces at you briefly and mutters its OK - forget it.(you could save a fortune on flowers.
2006-09-13 07:30:49 · answer #6 · answered by darkhorse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a little mushy but its better than 'Whats a girl like you doing in a place like this.' Plus no matter how mushy ppl may think it is.. its still a sweet gesture.. But you would probably be wasting a lot of money on flowers babe!!
2006-09-13 07:29:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be nice. I would like that. And if the chick likes you then you can expect a call. Maybe not even the flowers, just a flower if you want to be nice. Just the compliment would be sweet, then leave your card! Good thinkin!
2006-09-13 07:25:10 · answer #8 · answered by Susa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You see...thats why its so hard to meet a woman who you just happen to see out in the world like that. 1/2 the women who've answer your question have said "yes" the other half have said "it would scare them". I guess the point is you at least have asked and you had nothing to lose by asking. If the woman thinks you're weird thats her loss for not having the courage to find out if you REALLY were a nice guy or a weirdo. I always kick myself when I don't at least go up and ask.......
2006-09-13 07:27:20 · answer #9 · answered by Tower of T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! What a way to meet someone! I would call at the very least to find out about the person, I'd be very nervous tho. Have you done it or planning on doing it? Would love to hear how it develops.
2006-09-14 08:58:46 · answer #10 · answered by snowfoxx71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋