I’ve been going out with my Girlfriend for a couple of months now, and it’s been great. But in the last week or so, it just seems like we’ve lost the spark that we used to have and I don’t know why or how to get it back. I know it's still there...
I still want to be with her, and she said she still wants to be with me, but I don’t know what to do, or why I’m feeling like this. It feels like we’ve kind of lost why we went out in the first place, even though we still do romantic things together!
Any suggestions if that makes any sense?
2006-09-13 06:53:22 · 10 answers · asked by g s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont think to much into the situation. You and your could be under a litte stress. I just stress on the job, work, or family. What you should do is sit down and talk to her on how you feel about the whole situation. People act on how much they have on there mind. You if you feel in you heart that the flame is still there then its there it might need a little gasoline to spark that intial fire you had before. What you could do is surprise her with a romantic dinner. If you cant cook, order take out and set it up as if you did it. Or take her out on a night on the town. Dinner and a movie or cheaper a picnic dinner in the park or on the beach. Sound good to me do it do it. That would any woman feel better despite of how they may be feeling. Im a woman and im feelig better just thinking about it
2006-09-13 07:09:31 · answer #1 · answered by love_30034 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it happens all the time. I have a friend who's been with his gf for 4 years. They were childhood friends. But then 1 day they're finished coz the guy said that the 'spark' was lost or he "fall out of love".
So try not to see her for awhile or give some space to each other. So that you would know if you'll still continue this love to the next level or not.
2006-09-13 07:02:27 · answer #2 · answered by lady_mj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically the "honeymoon" is over and the new feelings are gone. Take it slow and be creative in the things you do and try to learn each others different sides. When a relationship is new everyone has that warm fuzzy feeling and when it goes away many couples split up. It takes work and you and your girlfriends are the only ones who know how to keep that spark. My advice is always communicate, that is the only way to make any relationship work.
Best of luck to you and your girlfriend. Stand strong in whatever you do.
2006-09-13 07:01:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you're not too sure about her. Feelings can change after a while. You should just be friends & see what else is out there, that would be more fair to her. Don't be with someone when you have doubts about the relationship. When you're with the "right" person, you know without question! Continue playing the field....
2006-09-13 06:59:59 · answer #4 · answered by bcre8ive2day 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't lose what you never had. Ex-girlfriends/boyfriends sometimes make the best platonic friends once it's over and there's been ample space to bring closure and heal. Talk about it, come to an agreement, spice it up or move on. Good luck with that!
2006-09-13 06:58:47 · answer #5 · answered by the_ahriginal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,it seems lie u have passed the 'honeymoon stage' of your r/ship and now here comes the real test.U need to connect with her on deeper levels than you r currently on.
2006-09-13 06:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by kareen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds weird. Take it slowly. I guess both of you might be having second thoughts about taking your relationship to a new level.
2006-09-13 06:55:28 · answer #7 · answered by Art The Wise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Recreate the begiining of the realtionship and see if this helps you get back on track.
2006-09-13 07:00:57 · answer #8 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe spend some time apart, you know the saying absence makes the heart grow fonder
2006-09-13 06:59:32 · answer #9 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you both are just getting to the comfortable stage.
2006-09-13 06:57:11 · answer #10 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋