I just found out that my boyfriend and one of my friends nearly slept together just before we got together i always thought i saw somthing beween them but just thought it was me we went out last night and they were both there and im sure im just bien silly but wen he was out the room she just kept asking questions about him and was giving him longing looks i dont know what to do i trust him with all my heart but i just dont trust her! Any ideas??
2006-09-13 06:51:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if nothing happened then one of them must have not wanted it. i would keep an eye on them both for now. maybe he wasnt interested in her and really liked you but it was before you were together. but keep an eye out for anything suspicious.
2006-09-14 04:52:24 · answer #1 · answered by I~Love~Baileys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is asking alot about him she interested and I would speak to the BF first about how you feel and then I would talk to her before you get into this do deep and then the get hurt. Just point blank ask and let the BF know how you feel about him and that if in any chance he has any tiny bit of interest then to tell you because you deserve to be told Trust me I have been hurt numerious times and its not fun and people dont think about what it does to a person until its to late
2006-09-13 14:28:01 · answer #2 · answered by sweets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you call her one of your friends if you don't trust her? If she is after your man then she is NOT a friend. Keep your man close and this supposed friend a great distance away from the both of you before something does happen.
2006-09-13 13:56:43 · answer #3 · answered by Bridezilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch the pair of them, you deserve a nice friend who is not jealous or waiting to jump on your bloke and you need a nice bloke you can trust with your new best mate. It might hurt but you're better to hurt yourself - don't let anyone else hurt you, that way you are in control.
2006-09-13 13:54:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes trust Him
2006-09-13 14:18:44 · answer #5 · answered by just_a_slim_guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This can and will only end one way . eventually you will lose the boyfriend .If you like the girl and she is a good friend then just dump the dude . If she is into your man then she aint no friend .......I think you should probally ditch them both to be perfectly honest ....
2006-09-13 13:56:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust him, it's you he's with. Talk to him about it and I'm sure he will put your mind at ease. You could also stop seeing so much of your friend, she isn't much of a pal if she's after your man.
2006-09-13 13:55:20 · answer #7 · answered by koolkatt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt trust her or him for that matter... if she is your friends she would know not to mess with your man, and he would stay away from her or at leat tell her he is not intrested if he feels something for you. if he doesnt do that then clearly he likes her or he wants to test his limits. i think u and him should have a talk!
2006-09-13 15:04:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u weren,t together at the time then i,d say dont worry but as shes still hanging around & he,s intrested in her then be on your guard! ask him to be straight with you & tell him ur fears. if he truly loves you then he,ll understand
2006-09-13 14:11:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
although she is your friend, dont trust her i have had too many girls screw me over. and as far as the guy goes dont totally trust him either, but you might ask him what he thinks of her
2006-09-13 13:55:14 · answer #10 · answered by justa girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋