Is a man who won't tell his ex's (that still have feelings for him) he's getting married because he's being empathetic towards their feelings, being private, or just want to spring it on them after the fact for whatever reason?
2006-09-13 06:50:13 · 9 answers · asked by stella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oye...Id say none of the above. Getting married is a JOYOUS occasion... I dont see it as a big deal that he is friends with his ex's, but he should DEF tell them he is getting married.... Thats pushing it. I have Lots of guy friends and I told them all right away... Cuz my friends are happy for me...ya know? So him not telling them is kinda shady towards you. Id call him on it. Tell him that he should care more about how you feel than his ex's.
2006-09-13 06:53:00 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how many ex's he has. if hes a mormon it may take months to tell all his ex's. I think men should get a new wife every 5 years and the old ones put to pasture
2006-09-13 13:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by bama_cid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if nothing depends on a marriage such as maintenance i would tell an ex either no reason to. you gave up your rights to my life when the divorce was final.
2006-09-13 13:52:30 · answer #3 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
empathetic towards their feelings.
2006-09-13 13:52:30 · answer #4 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be feelin guilty....or maybe he dsnt want u in his damn life anymore...maybe he dsnt want anyhtin to do with u...im sorry if i sound harsh but u have to accept it and MOVE ON...hes gettin married for gods sake....
stop thinkin of him....destroy everythin that u two shared..anyhtin that reminds u of him......start a new life......its not dat hard....
all da best....i know u can do it......tc
2006-09-13 13:56:35 · answer #5 · answered by sah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just being stupid. springing it on them afterwards will not help the situation at all...
2006-09-13 13:52:07 · answer #6 · answered by Jêññ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think he is being a jerk to the new wife!
2006-09-13 13:52:18 · answer #7 · answered by JUNONNKI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-09-13 13:52:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants the best of both worlds, good for his ego!
2006-09-13 13:53:08 · answer #9 · answered by OnionSkin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋