For instance, I had a relationship with a guy for over a year (casual/friendship/bf/sex) had to move away because of a job, about 4 hrs away from me. Before (about 6 months ago) we had a break for about a month, then got back together. He said it was good for us. Anyway, before he left he told me he wants to keep in touch with me.
Oh by the way, he said with me, it's the best sex he's ever had. Does that help? lol
2006-09-13 06:40:27 · 30 answers · asked by feisty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If so, how often should I contact him without seeming needy?
2006-09-13 06:48:25 · update #1
yeah but not for too long, then it just makes you forget...
2006-09-13 06:42:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well heres what I have to say. I think that absence makes the heart grower fonder...to an extent. Like when my boyfriend is away for 3 hours, and comes back. Its seems I love him more everytime. But then again, I love him to death, and if I couldnt see him for more than a day. I wouldnt probably loose my mind. I would never be able to have a long distance relationship, because I need to be with and hold and see him every day. If not thyen I would miss him way too much. If he moved. I'd be right behind him! And as for the sex....some guys say that to boost your confidence, and make you want to do it more. But then again, maybe you are great for him, and really do give good sex. HaHa! good luck!
2006-09-13 06:48:32 · answer #2 · answered by TayNuz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in your shoes before - I feel for you. Let me be frank ...long-distance relationships do not work unless the time apart is short and there is a definite date agreed upon for getting back together. As much as I was into my girlfriend, I slept with other women (not a lot, but one is too many, right ?) because I was young and I got lonely. Almost any sex for men - not really, well almost - is good...for women, it's much different. Think about where you are in your life and where you want/need to be and make a decision based on what your intuition tells you. Good luck with that!
2006-09-13 06:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by the_ahriginal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To a degree it can make the heart grow fonder, but it can also open up the heart to look for someone to take place of the one who's absent. Long distance relationships CAN work, but it takes a lot of effort. I dated a guy who lived an hour away for 2 years; initially he said the distance didn't matter to him at all; when he dumped me he said it was the main reason. Go figure.
Oh yeah - way to go on the best sex part!!! That will keep you in his mind & heart - fer sher!! lmao
2006-09-13 06:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my husband and I were dating, we broke up for a few months and I ended up moving out of his apartment, back in with my dad. We only lived about thirty minutes apart, but it obviously wasn't the same because I couldn't see him whenever I wanted and we had a chance to miss each other. We ended up getting back together two months later because we couldn't take being apart. But being apart was actually one of the best things that's ever happened to our relationship, because we came to appreciate each other a little more. So I think that yes -- absence (and distance) make the heart grow fonder.
2006-09-13 06:44:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One way or another keep your options open it sounds like you have an open relationship...if he really wants you he will be back but don't sit around waiting literally or figuratively...take the compliment about the best sex and remember it when you feel insecure and just think how many more options you have, if he really loves you and realizes he might lose you he will make a move back to you, either way its a win/win you will have him or open your heart to someone who reciprocates fully with you...
2006-09-13 06:45:05 · answer #6 · answered by Ellie-Hay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you really love someone, even if you don't know it yes. My husband and I dated and broke up many times and broke up a couple times while married. If we had contact everyday and kept hating each other, but when we never saw or talked to each other or when i moved away, we began to miss each other and realize the people we were with weren't who we wanted we would talk and get back together.. Love is a very funny and complex thing
2006-09-13 06:47:46 · answer #7 · answered by Trouble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes absents makes the heart fonder, it also breaks your heart.I am so sorry to hear that he moved, but 4 hrs. is a long way I would keep in touch with the person, but i also would get on with my life. there is no sense in crying over spilt milk hes gone and your there. find someone knew there are plenty out there. good luck
2006-09-13 06:45:45 · answer #8 · answered by boo boo bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well absentice does make the heart grow fonder or forgetful depends how u deal wit it. an bout the sex thing it is probadly a lie cause most guys will do n e thing to get in ur pants.
2006-09-13 06:58:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this is friends with benefit. One ofyou will end up getting hurt. better if you move on and have a relationship with someone that is near by and loves you for all you are, not just the sex. cause anyuone can give you sex.
2006-09-13 06:43:36 · answer #10 · answered by A_Latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dam precise its genuine, My GF lives in the u . s . on the 2d yet is shifting out right here in jan-feb to australia and particular the gap definetly makes the middle strengthen fonder, for the two one individuals. thank you. Mitch
2016-12-15 07:26:37 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋