he has started not calling me and even when l call, he doesnt pick the phone, he provides excuses every now and then. l love him very much but how can l prepare for this smelling disappointment. sometimes l spend sleepless nights. please help
2006-09-13 06:32:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i can understand how hard it might be on u.1 thing i know that u can not chain anyone's heart.just be nice to him and wait for a while.he might be having some other problems as love is not the only problem in life.even if u r worried about him getting involved with someone else,u cant do much.u too need a distraction.keep urself busy and put ur energy in other things than in ur insecurity.let him work hard to get to u.if he doesnt makes an effort to get to u,u certainly deserve someone better.
2006-09-13 06:41:47 · answer #1 · answered by S S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice giving him up. Pretend he already broke up with you and move on.
Start looking at other guys as if you were unattached. Start doing things with girlfriends as if you were not dating, etc.
After 2 years, relationships should be moving one way or the other- forward towards something stable, or towards breakup. People DO change- and that is a great reason to date for a while. You've changed too- and perhaps some of his changes reflect some of yours.
It is sad and you'll go thorugh a mourning period, but that is OK too.
2006-09-13 13:36:51 · answer #2 · answered by Madkins007 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I am so sorry it sounds like you really are hurting a lot and he is being very insensitive to you by not returning your calls. Just hang in there tell him you really would like to get together and talk about what's going on and that you wonder if he is breaking up with you, if so tell him can he please tell you so you can know where you stand....try to get as much support from friends and be prepared to be 'single' without him...just in case...
2006-09-13 13:41:52 · answer #3 · answered by Ellie-Hay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wen u give him too much attention he starts to take u for granted...as much as u love him control ur feelings..and turn way from him..the moment he realizes he isnt gettin all ur attention and love he will come crawling bak to u hopefully.....dats how men work...he needs to understand how important u r....he needs to realize ur value...stop being a doormat.....its time for sum integrity...dont make him feel superior....
2006-09-13 13:40:47 · answer #4 · answered by sah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like its time to get the girlfriends together for a sleepover!! it sounds like he's pulling away from you. be straight up with him and ask. its best to get it over with quick than to let it drag out. believe me, there are plenty of guys out there. you'll move on
2006-09-13 13:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People change, and you can either deal with it or leave. Also you may want to call Cheaters.
2006-09-13 13:35:21 · answer #6 · answered by pudgie39759 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't lose what you don't have, if he chooses to move on then please leave with your own self respect. Once you move on you'll be surprised at the results, it just takes time. Good luck
2006-09-13 13:40:13 · answer #7 · answered by ellen w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its football season
go take is credit cards and go to the mall
2006-09-13 13:34:16 · answer #8 · answered by jamietogood 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋