i find myself giving. She is jobless at this time and i think it's more of pity. She said she will pay me back Jan 2007. Should i believe her or should i just dump her?
2006-09-13 05:58:33 · 12 answers · asked by diplomat_safe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you "loan" money to a lover or partner, never expect to get it back, thats a given. If she does, it will be a pleasant surprise. If you are willing to dump her over money then the relationship isnt important to you anyway. Just tell her that you cant afford to give her anymore and I'll bet she finds a job really fast!
2006-09-13 06:02:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry man, you should dump her but you should also get your money back. Either get some sort of agreement signed in front of a lawyer or get it back from her asap. If you dump her she won't pay you back unless she is forced to.
2006-09-13 06:01:38 · answer #2 · answered by hawksfan17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, quit throwing your money in the garbage. you worked hard for it didn't you? you and I both know that you will never see that money again, so curb the chick and find one that can hold down a steady job and make her own money. It's a good thing to have faith in people, but she hasn't shown that she diserved it. (fool me once, shame on you: fool me twice shame on me)
2006-09-13 06:02:48 · answer #3 · answered by KELLY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Judge Mathis!!!!!!!! Oh, Stop borrowing money to her, Are you nuts? Come on man. You're get'n played baby. She's probably spending your cash on her new man, gotta watch that, bitches are good for that!
2006-09-13 06:05:05 · answer #4 · answered by VEGAS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take her sorry *** to court, but you are to dumb to think about that since you keep giving her money, she is probably giving it to her real boyfriend.
2006-09-13 06:03:27 · answer #5 · answered by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's using you...time to move onto someone who can support herself.
2006-09-13 06:12:04 · answer #6 · answered by lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe her. And listen, I need a few bucks and I'll pay you back.......
2006-09-13 06:10:54 · answer #7 · answered by elgil 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you believe her if shes not paying you back by now.
2006-09-13 06:02:11 · answer #8 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her broke @ss!!
2006-09-13 06:01:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for that sort of money she better not tell you no to anything and I mean anything
2006-09-13 06:06:07 · answer #10 · answered by idtshadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋