i am in a long distance relationship about 2 years now.i love the guy with all my heart,the problem is i havent seen or heard him,got some old photos of him,i fell in love with his heart,looks dont mean much to me,but i would love to see and speak to him.he says he does try to phone but cannot be connected.He has sees me almost everyday because we chat everyday. we are planning to marry,he was meant to be here last year but until now he hasnt shown up because of his job,i am confused,i question myself about this relationship.scared even, wat if he's not geniune?wen i ask him he says he does love me,wants to be with me,but i just think he's not making enough effort,am i being unfair?what do you guys think about this?what would you do in the same situation?
2006-09-13 05:47:38 · 8 answers · asked by soft heart 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was in that situation 11 years ago. However, mine did arrive as planned and we are married now and have been for 10 years. I would have a serious chat with this guy and just ask him why he is dragging his heels about meeting you. He may just be afraid, however, he may be playing you. Good luck!
2006-09-13 05:52:29 · answer #1 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea you are a bit out there. I have tried internet dating but you usually just use it as an interface to meet people, not to talk to them online via email etc for 2 years. You haven't met, talked on the phone or seen a picture?? That is whack, dump him and find a real live breathing man.
2006-09-13 12:50:52 · answer #2 · answered by hawksfan17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not insane just to trusting,do you really think when he calls he cant be connected,where does he live hooterville?(tv show petty coat junction).If you think he has been faithful then you aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa are also naive,but not insane.Dump him and get on with your life youve waisted enough time on him. SORRY! but this is my feelings on the subject.
2006-09-13 13:01:27 · answer #3 · answered by saturn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him an ultimatum: Either he makes the effort to spend real time with you..or it's over.
2006-09-13 12:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you every met this guy in person? I'm a little confused by your statement. You say you've never seen him or heard him but he sees you almost everyday? Please explain...
2006-09-13 12:52:34 · answer #5 · answered by dolphinlove_20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bet would be that the guy is currently married!
2006-09-13 13:04:48 · answer #6 · answered by hailyankees 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're insane if you think I'm gonna read that long story
2006-09-13 12:56:39 · answer #7 · answered by chelsetoots 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else that you can actually see and touch.
This guy is a fake.
2006-09-13 12:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋