We have a 2 week old son together and we have the understanding that we are friends. Now get this, he calls everyday and we talk for hours at a time. If he was just calling to check on our son, don't you think he would ask how he was doing and then hang up if he didn't still like me?? What do you guys think? I love him with all my heart but our relationship didn't work and we get along better as friends. Do you think he still wants to be with me?
2006-09-13 05:46:28 · 14 answers · asked by tantalizin1 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He still cares for you. He might want to be, but he also might realize you are better off as friends. He also seems to understand that you guys will always have a bond for the rest of his life and he doing things to keep it healthy. Let time tell and just be friends for now so in the long run, so something doesn't affect the good relationship now.
2006-09-13 05:49:27 · answer #1 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes he does but the important thing is whats best for you and your son, you get along better now as just friends, would being more hurt you or your son in the long run, I'm not some Dr. Phil and I don't have a degree but you have to think of why your relationship didn't work in the first place and really weigh in both how you feel and what you think is best for the one guy in your life that really matters, your son.
2006-09-13 05:52:05 · answer #2 · answered by John H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you BOTH want each other to be more than friends. If you didn't, you (and he) would end the conversation after talking about your son. Stop giving each other mixed messages and figure out what you want to do. Do you love each other enough to put up with whatever ended the relationship the last time (unless one of you cheated, then that's uncalled for)? If you love a person, you work through differences, big and small. So do you want to make it work, or do you want to be just friends? If you want to be just friends, stop talking so much on the phone because that's showing more than just friendship.
2006-09-13 05:51:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he still has a lot of feelings for you. As for wanting to be with you, I don't know. Sometimes it's just hard to let go for some people.
You still love him, as I'm sure he still loves you, now that you have a child together, maybe he's thinking "maybe we should try and make this work for our child's sake"
Just ask yourself this question if you think about getting back together with him: After all the history you have, do you think that the two of you could be happy together?
Good luck!
2006-09-13 05:50:14 · answer #4 · answered by Heather S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are now a friend he will be plowing from time to time he doesnt want to be with u...although theres not enough info to determine that for sure but you guys used to be an item and now have a seed together....that connection will always be there.
2006-09-13 05:48:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you decided to be just friends, then its better that you don't think of it that way. First priority is the baby, set aside your feelings for him.
2006-09-13 05:49:46 · answer #6 · answered by 99CLOUD99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's hard to say with just that little bit of info, but it does sound like he truly cares for you..ask him how he feels.
2006-09-13 05:48:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course he does, he def still loves u, u don't just forget about someone that quick especially if u have a kid together.
2006-09-13 05:51:47 · answer #8 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he just wants some of your a.ss. Prob. hasn't got any in 9 months
2006-09-13 05:48:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes
2006-09-13 05:48:10 · answer #10 · answered by Clints_wench 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋