he tells me he loves me when we arent around anyone but then acts like he tries to hide it when we are around people
2006-09-13 05:29:11 · 40 answers · asked by Sam M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What do you do ? Dont let anyone ever treat you like that. If your not good enough when around people then he doesn't deserve you at all.
2006-09-13 05:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whats up honey, i develop into once like that too even as i develop into 14. All i wanted develop right into a boyfriend as well i'm now 17 and function a best boyfriend, yet I also did not get my first boyfriend till i develop into 15. i began searching up all about it and each and every thing. i develop into so passionate about attempting to get a boyfriend. i found quite some diverse solutions yet plenty protected replacing the way i look, or act, ect. To get a boyfriend you in basic terms prefer to be your self and examine out tidied someone who will easily care about you. attempt to envision with some adult men round your college (and round your age!!) see in the experience that they have got some same interests as you it would want to get you a step in the direction of not being unmarried anymore. also do not attempt to demanding on your first kiss, or first something! attempt to make positive YOURE easily waiting and do not in basic terms say you're because everybody else says they are.
2016-11-26 21:24:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi darling, I think you deserve better than that from whoever you are going out with as your boy friend, If he really loves you, and you are the only one he has, he should be able to prove it to the whole wide world, with no restraint. On the other hand, before you make any move or take things from your own perspective, try to talk to him and let him voice out what ever he has on mind, if you think what he tells you is understandable, and you want to settle for that then do it, but if he doesn't give you any tangible reason then I think you should let him know that you do not intend to hurt him, but you also want someone who really appreciate you for who you are, and would be proud of being with you where ever they are, regardless of who or what is there. Then you can take actions that makes you happy from that point.
All the best, and wish things fall in place for you.
2006-09-13 05:52:33 · answer #3 · answered by Kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with Captain Dave on this one. There are 2 possibilities that I can see:
1) If he's emotionally immature, then I would dump him. He needs to grow up at some point and respect the woman he's with.
2) If he's just trying to get you in the sack, then I would dump him, too. Remember the saying: women can fake an orgasm, but men can fake a whole relationship.
Either way, as I see it, you deserve to be treated better.
2006-09-13 05:40:26 · answer #4 · answered by EC-S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with some of the answers and say guys are like that sometimes they think that if they show the romantic side of them then that means they are weak. I wouldn't study to much on it but I would let him know that pushing you away doesn't make things better but leaving the romance out is ok if it embarasses him like that but not to push you away. Some guys grow out of it and some don't... you have to figure out if you are willing to deal with that shyness in him or if you want more. But thats all you.
2006-09-13 05:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by Redneck Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and let him know that that just is not going to work anymore, he might think that what he is doing is what you want him to do. If talking doesn't work the next time that you are around other people and he pushes you away walk over to him and stick your tongue in his mouth, and then walk away he'll get the message.
2006-09-13 05:48:51 · answer #6 · answered by DivaByNature,B*tchByChoice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And When He pushes u away wat do you do?.... I mean not for nothing ur his girlfriend and he should be the way he is with u alone, when hes around his friends. I mean He doesn't have to b all over u lovey dovey, but its ok to hold ur hand and jus b cool with u being like this is my lady and i lover her. He should be proud to show u off and b like i got someone good in my life. Not for nothig he says he loves u. If my boyfriend acted like that towards me, u bet i'd kick his Azz to the curb, n jus to be a ***** i'd drop him right in front of his friends.
2006-09-13 05:40:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are shy .... They afraid when their friend saw how romantic he is around his girlfriend they will make fun of him... It depend on how he pushes you away.... Did he talk to his friends and always bring up you?? Did he just ignore you? Did he at least wink or smile back at you? If you think he around his friend and you are like a nobody tell him about how it make you sad...
2006-09-13 05:34:54 · answer #8 · answered by funkysha916 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you better put your foot down and read him the riot act! If he loves you then he should not be ashamed of being seen that way by his friends. Neither race, religion, nor polotics should matter where love is concerned. If he refuses to correct his bad behaviour, drop him like a bad habit 'cause he's only tryin' to git in dem pants! nuf said!
2006-09-13 05:38:59 · answer #9 · answered by fullmoonwolf4real 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you don't appreciate the way that he's acting. Ask him if he's ashamed to be with you or something. Let him know that his behavior is making you unhappy and that he needs to work on it. How are you to know if he really does love you if he keeps you at an arms distance in public? If he really loved you he wouldn't act that way.
2006-09-13 05:42:17 · answer #10 · answered by Just♥Brie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋