What can I do? I'm so sad =(?

Question

Hi. I moved in with my girlfriend a few months ago and I soon noticed she regularly borrowed my car while I was at work to go who knows where, usually Tuesday and Thursday, because it was parked different. She works from home part-time selling cosmetics online, and I usually walk to work, so my car is practically always available for her. I wanted to trust her, because we'd been together since highschool and we never had serious problems, but as you can imagine, I was a little concerned. One day I got out early from work. As I came round the corner I spotted my girlfriend getting out of our house quickly with the car keys in her hand and a big smile on her face that I rarely get see. In a rush I decided to grab my bike and follow her, trying to disguise myself. She's a slow driver, so I could track her moves quite easily. After a couple of turns she suddenly came to a halt, and I could feel my anxiety rising. A young man, probably a couple of years younger than me, came to greet her

...from a house nearby. He wore shabby clothes and held a cigarette between his lips. He leaned onto the open car window and kissed her, then he got in on the passenger's side. I felt a cold shiver run through my spine, I was so scared... I dropped my bike behind a fence and tiptoed closer to the car to get a better view. I couldn't believe my eyes what was going on in there!!!! He was all over her, licking her neck and feeling her breast like a huge leech, while his cigarette had fallen between the leather seat, slowly burning a black hole through them. In shock, I couldn't help but keep staring at the scene. My suspects weren't just delusions. What do you think reupholstering the seat will cost? I'd told her I didn't allow smoking in my car! She really pissed me off X-(

I don't think you understand my feelings. How can you give a clue about how important it was for me? A Chevy muscle completely hand painted, and now I have to tow it away because I can't fix the seats.

I'm reluctant, but I will make her pay for the seat... I just hoped there was a better solution. I don't want to give her the impression I'm too materialistic. But why are your answers so angry? Her friend was also very cooperative, maybe they can divide the expense. I definitely don't want to move out, I like the neighborhood. I only wish she would listen to me. What if she negligently burns our house down someday?

Answer 1

You should definitely write the rest of that...it'll be a bestseller I'm sure!

Answer 2

WOW! You have a big problem now. What you have to do is ask yourself, is she worth feeling miserable and betrayed all the time? It doesn't matter how long you've been together to her if she's cheating on you. Maybe she wants a bad boy, or she's a goldigger. Don't waste your time trying to remind her that you care beacuse she doesn't care that much about you, once you see that, you will know you deserve better.

Answer 3

Wow!! That's real bad. I'm sorry. To cheer yourself up, try doing things you liked and gave up when you met your gf. It'll help you to be who you were before you even knew she existed. Go out with your friends but don't let people take advantage of you as you may be vulnerable. Just have fun and show your gf that you can be YOU without her!! Good luck.

Answer 4

Why you still with this ho for? Move out, find a real woman, not a woman who uses you. Make her pay for the seat. You deserve better. Good Luck

Answer 5

if she's cheating on you, y are u still with her? u can talk to her about it...and tell her u saw what was going on, if you want to bring it to her attention. but she might ask y u were following her. she's totally using you, it seems for your car, and maybe for other things. i'd move out, but only after discussing it with her...so she knows u're not stupid. i understand u have been with her since hs, but i think it's time to move on. if the guy was touching her, and kissing her....let him have her.

Answer 6

great story pal, you could be a novelist
knob