here's the issue i'm 17 and have been in 4 relationship all lasting about a year now i am single and i want to date but i don't know how because every time i get near a guy i like i get really nervous
2006-09-13 05:17:04 · 16 answers · asked by Kay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've been in 4 long relationships, that's better than most your age, what's to be nervous about?
2006-09-13 05:18:49 · answer #1 · answered by Game Guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 years / 4 relations = 0 now. You were 13 when you started getting involved with men? Please don't take this in a negative way, but positive. Concentrate on education, and your own happiness to be an independent woman first, then take time out when your a little older to deal with a guy. Have fun with your freinds. That way you will appreciate it more when you are older, that you wasted your life away on searching for "the one". And as long as you don't have the "one" enjoy being single. Maybe you should just try dating instead of full commitment. Make sense?
2006-09-13 05:23:17 · answer #2 · answered by Mother of One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all to do with your confidence. You have plenty of experience on the dating scene...so why not try to relax, and take time out for yourself, discover who YOU are and what YOU want from a relationship. Then consider dating. Also go to Barnes and Nobles and look under the Psychology section or relationship section, that may also give you better advice. Good Luck
2006-09-13 05:20:59 · answer #3 · answered by Apricot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 17 what are you wanting a long lasting relationship get out and enjoy yourself you can meet men later .
2006-09-13 05:19:46 · answer #4 · answered by Nutty Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tink, if you don't get near a guy you won't really overcome this nervousness. But the only advice I have for you is that you should look for a guy you really love and loves you back sincerely. All you need is to develop your level of confidence. Not all guys can do that help you achieve that but only the one that loves you sincerely and really cares for you in all ramifications. Cheers!
2006-09-13 05:26:47 · answer #5 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 17!!!try being single for a while you never know you might like it.theres plenty of time to have relationships go enjoy yourself!
2006-09-13 05:25:03 · answer #6 · answered by keevy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow, just get to know them as a friend first. Then you can be yourself and feel comfortable around them.
2006-09-13 05:23:31 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ME♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself. youll find that when you feel that spark with a certain person the nerves will fade
2006-09-13 05:22:37 · answer #8 · answered by tara25holly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember what you did with the other guys.
2006-09-13 05:41:08 · answer #9 · answered by B i n g o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax and dont be afraid to show your feelings,follow your heart and everything is going to be easier
2006-09-13 05:51:37 · answer #10 · answered by droid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋