First off, my g/f doesnt let me stare at other hotties that walk by....and in bed, she wont let me put it in her rusty sheriffs badge...arent relationships supposed to be 50/50? What ever happened to compromise? If my calculations are correct, that is 2 for her and 0 for me? Should I get out of this onesided relationship?
2006-09-13 05:13:30 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PS. i have to take out the trash.
2006-09-13 05:26:06 · update #1
May it fall off! You want to practice a very UNHEALTHY act.
You are a selfish sleazy male animal.
2006-09-13 05:18:01 · answer #1 · answered by WhatAmI? 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Do you let her stare at other hotties? You have to think of other things here. In the bedroom, does she demand that you perform cunnilingus on her? Or does she always perform fellatio on you? If it's that important to you that you think that if you can't put it in her back door and you think it's unreasonable, maybe you should find someone who's ok with you going in the stink instead of the pink. Relationships are about compromise but they are also about respect. So if she doesn't want to, then respect her decision. Besides, how would you enjoy it if another man put his d*ck into your back door?
2006-09-13 05:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by @~>--T--<~@ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A compromise would be... you doing something nice for her for you to get what you want. Honestly... if a girl has never had that... it is so painful that she might throw up on you. Try sticking a dildo in your backdoor and see what it's like. As for looking at other women. Do you look and look away? If you stare at them then you need to look into yourself and ask why. I'd be upset too.
You can't ask her to do all the sacrificing when you aren't doing any. That's not 50/50. That's asking her to do all the work, and you do nothing. It's selfish, and she sees it, and I see it, and you don't see it. I bet you'll lose her soon if you don't clean up your selfish tendancies.
2006-09-13 05:20:02 · answer #3 · answered by jennilaine777 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, there should be compromise, but listen, I am a girl who would like to give my BF back door entry, but I am really scared. Heard so much about the pain and I am scared. If you really care about her, you would not get mad if she is not willing to do it. He would never make me do something I was not comfortable with. Try something else, that you both agree on.
If your insisting that she does it, then you are not compromising either right?
I Dont think the relationship is one sided, you just want it your way and she is not going for that, therefore you say she is not compromising.
2006-09-13 05:22:18 · answer #4 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How about you let her add up how much stuff you dont compromise on and see who comes out the winner...cause trust me there is never a winner...in a real relationship you make compromises everyday all day...that is called love. Not math. Besides...ever had someone stick theres up your backside..doesn't feel so great if they aren't nice about it....try it, then tell her she mean for not letting you do it.
2006-09-13 05:19:43 · answer #5 · answered by Becky_texas 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i might want to initiate writing your agenda down. also - request a gathering at the same time with your roomie (formally, i recognize. Formal, certain. you'll comprehend why in slightly) and ask her to placed in writing her agenda too. once you examine at the same time with your roomie, comply with save it calm and to apply "I" messages fairly of accuse. you want to save this mature. in my opinion, there's a compromise - you deserve the right to bathe. even as it may wake her up, she will be in a position to also make investments in ear plugs to deal which includes her sleep progression. this is none of your organization even as she receives up, in spite of the undeniable fact that it is your organization if she will whine about it. this is illogical to call for in basic terms showers at evening. clarify that the present difficulty is likewise pissing YOU off because you at the on the spot are not being dealt with as an equivalent roomie. you shouldn't ought to stroll on egg shells round her. also - do not deliver your boyfriend into this verbal substitute. do not element out that he won't be able to come over any extra. it really is beside the point to the present difficulty. the in basic terms 2 those who might want to be further up in this verbal substitute is You and Your Roomie.
2016-11-26 21:24:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women think the "back door" way is unsanitary and disgusting. If you want a girl who is willing to do that, you might have to look for a new girlfriend.
2006-09-13 05:17:06 · answer #7 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should step back and look at this from her point of view. I sure as hell wouldn't want anything going up my rear, ever!!!!!! WOULD YOU???? If your not satisfied enough with you girlfriend and you have to look at other women, maybe your too inmature to have a girlfriend.
2006-09-13 05:19:56 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ME♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol! i'm sure she'd "let" u look at other girls if you didn't drool over them. it's the way that the guy does it that makes it "OK" or not. if she doesn't want you do put it in her back door...then pls be understanding. you might be able to cox her into it depending on how u present the topic...make it hot, and sensual...don't just do it.
2006-09-13 05:17:05 · answer #9 · answered by Snki55ed Princess 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you have any real feelings for your girlfriend,that you're only in it for the sex.You need to let the poor girl go to find a real man who knows the real meaning of compromise.
2006-09-13 05:41:00 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋