This girl I knew from months ago called me one day and started expressing her feelings. She said she wanted to know me better. When I heard this I wasn't sure if I liked her then, so me and my brother hung out with her and one of her close friends. Then one day for some reason my brother confessed that he liked her. The thing is, back then when we knew each other, she had an interest in him but he was with another girl so she kinda held her feelings back. Now I realize how much I like her after hanging out and have seen her great personality. It's really hard for me because it's my brother and her. I thought about letting go of my feelings but I know when they get together, it's gonna be really hard for me.... am I stupid?
2006-09-13 05:00:57 · 4 answers · asked by drsnowmon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, I will attempt to approach this situation will ease..........YES in a way you are being stupid because look on the flip side.....you voice your feelings, she says she likes you too meanwhile everytime she is with you she is thinking of him. Sounds to me like you AND your brother should leave her alone. You could always try to find out how she feels about him now but if there is any chemistry between them, your relationship will never work. To avoid any conflict between you and your brother (which is ALWAYS more important than ANY girl) you both should move on to other people. If this isn't something you want to do then you need to find out where your brother, her, and your feelings stand on everything. That should give you your next best option. Hope this helps
2006-09-13 05:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by ninalopez19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, youre not stupid. I can see how that would be hard. If it were me, Id have to tell my brother that I liked her too. The best man will win her heart. Shes gonna go after who SHE likes. It may be you she wants!
2006-09-13 12:04:23 · answer #2 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you don't have any feelings towards her its just infatuation towards her it will ward off in days. Well the girl dint like you at all. She liked your bro but since he was with another gal she held her feelings and started to like you but when your bro got feelings for her. She completely forgot you and realized that the like for your bro in her heart was still there.
2006-09-13 12:08:07 · answer #3 · answered by Bacti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just like her because of whats going on between her and your brother. Sibling competition. Find someone on your own, your own special treasure.
2006-09-13 12:05:29 · answer #4 · answered by Peter Pan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋