suppoppose,one day u suddenly knew that ur bf/gf was just dating u 4 coming closer to ur bestfriend.he/she has an affection towards u,but thats not love.he/she loves ur bestfriend and was dating u for coming closer to ur bestfriend.
what should u do in that sudden situation.
please don't tell that u'll leave him/her.,think its not possible to leave.tell what would u do to make him/her really love u?
2006-09-13 04:47:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
please,4 god sake tell the solution,don't say to leave.......
2006-09-13 04:54:21 · update #1
if there is a will,there is a way.i wan't to prove it true.so,please suggest,how to make him love me,by any means.....
2006-09-13 05:03:37 · update #2
If I were to be in your place, I would have moved out of their way! Your supposedly boyfriend does not love you and is only using you. If you insist on conquering him, you might end up being more unhappy while being with him than you would have been if you were to live without him. Or your insistence might also led to you losing both him and your best friend forever. So I think it will be more sensible to make way for them. In this way, you can have both as your friends! Who knows, in so doing your boyfriend might notice you have indeed a great heart and is ready to do anything for his happiness! So there's a possibility that he starts really loving you for this attitude of yours. If he doesn't come to you, then you'll know that there is someone much better than him who'll come in our life! You will just have to be patient. What is yours will come back to you, and what isn't, will never be yours however hard you try to get it!
2006-09-13 05:15:22 · answer #1 · answered by Goldenheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he/she so desperate for this person's attention? If this person is only with the other person to get closer to the friend then why would he/she want to be used like that? You can't make someone love you, they either do or they don't. He/She needs to get some respect for themselves....
Not tryig to be mean but for real, love yourself enough to not be used and just thrown away when it's convenient for this other person.
2006-09-13 12:01:00 · answer #2 · answered by Bridezilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you kidding? the fact that your boyfriend simply used you, you will still make the effort to make him love you. how could you make him love you when you know for a fact that he loves another woman?
fyi, you can never force upon yourself to the person who doesn't love you. would you feel happy knowing that your bf loves somebody else while you're both in a relationship?
if you want to stay in a one sided love affair, go ahead and be happy.
honestly, you're old enough to decide for things. i hope you'll come your senses to make the right decision.
2006-09-13 12:48:40 · answer #3 · answered by smiling face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick that pig to the curb. He has proven he has no respect for you or you bf because he's dating you to get closer to you b/f. You should nip that in the bud before it starts a whole lot of Drama you don't need!
2006-09-13 12:19:19 · answer #4 · answered by sista_w_class 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is hard to break off with such a person but you have to realize that though you love him/her, your feelings are not being returned. He or she toyed with your emotions to get what they wanted and never even thought of how much it would hurt you. I think it is best if you got out of this relationship.
2006-09-13 11:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by cutiepie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love cannot be made it just happens, u cannot force ur friend to love ur gf/bf and how can u love that person who never loved you and was using u ???
i think u r behaving like a drama freak?
mind ur own business !!!!!!! leave them alone to sort it out
2006-09-13 11:54:35 · answer #6 · answered by may_minu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't buy love or make someone love you because then you will never be happy! Trust me I know, learned the hard way! You know in your heart what you need to do! Always follow your heart!
Good Luck!
2006-09-13 11:51:34 · answer #7 · answered by heart2heart27958 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the only real solution: Get Some Pride.
2006-09-13 12:14:46 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but honestly, do you want to be in a relatioship that you knew the person you were with was only with you to get with someone else? You need to leavr that person because they do not respect you nor want to be with you. You deserve better.
2006-09-13 11:55:59 · answer #9 · answered by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they're in love with someone else, it's extremely hard to make them love you. I know you don't want to leave, but if the other's mind is made up, it's amost impossible to get them to change.
2006-09-13 11:52:11 · answer #10 · answered by Ray M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋