My boyfriend and me were talking on the phone at around 5 pm on his way back home from work and he told me he would call me when ge got home from driving from work. He did not call me until 10:30 of last night and told me he was hanging around with his boys, so I hung up. This morning i asked him why he did not call me and he said he forgot. I am so mad at him, am i making a big deal????
2006-09-13 04:38:04 · 28 answers · asked by lluvia2wcc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to me u had the right t get mad at the simple fact that he should of never lied to to tel that he was going to call u back. i had a heard time like that with my boyfriend but we worked everything out nd ever seance he has not lied to me about calling me back.
love mami chula
2006-09-13 04:46:35 · answer #1 · answered by mami chula 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey, u said he called at 10:30 pm meaning he called when he could, when he remembered, i think u're making a big deal.
When next he fails to call and u feel bad then u call him to ask why instead of choking inside. This is a two way thing. Be proactive not reactive, u have the influencial power to make things happen the way you want, so use it.
But if he makes it a habit, then have a serious talk about it.
2006-09-13 05:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by hottest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend does the same thing to me some times and I get ******* pissed to. But I have grown in our relationship and I've realized that I get mad a lot because things don't go the way I want them to. I've overcome that a bit but it still gets to me. Me and my man had a sit down and I let him know that I don't like to wait or be disappointed about things. If he says he is going to do something he should, but if he isn't sure I'll respect him for saying I'll call you later instead of giving a time or just letting me know. I guess a lot had to do with trust to. You have the right to be mad but try to resolve it instead of just letting it go because it will happen again. Talk to him about your feelings and try not to hang up in his face to much( I do that to..!!! lol ) especially if you really want to be with him. Everything will work out just remember that he is a guy and they don't think like us.
Good luck!!!!!!!
2006-09-13 04:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by trice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your making a big deal out of it. Pick your battles. Is this one that really really is so horrible that it requires you to hang up on him? If he does this alot, then yes - be mad for not keeping promises. If this only happened once, let him know you aren't happy and please try to consider your feelings. Other than that.. it could be worse! It's just a phone call!
2006-09-13 04:49:38 · answer #4 · answered by Pimp E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are. I have found myself in similar situations and reacted the same way you have. What I have taken from those experiences is that that is just the way men are. You have to take the good with the bad honey. If he's a great guy then focus on his good qualities. We are never going to find Mr. Perfect!
2006-09-13 04:50:15 · answer #5 · answered by sandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really not that big of a deal but if he was a considerate person he would have at least been able to call you sooner. What a stupid excuse though.. it must make you feel like his friends are more important than you...
That just plain sucks
Tell him he has to do some MAJOR *** KISSING before you can let this one go. Being the inferior species they are good at groveling anyway, so ENJOY!!!
2006-09-13 04:43:50 · answer #6 · answered by Bridezilla 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I suppose it depends on the situation, if I put off other stuff waiting for him, I'd be kinda upset but at the end of the day that would be my own fault. But I suppose **** happens sometimes.
Tell him how it made you feel and next time don't wait around.
Remember, life's short so don't let the little things take up to much of it. And if he does it too often, move on.
2006-09-13 04:48:58 · answer #7 · answered by Cailin Dana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kind of i mean what if you were hanging out with friends having a really good time would you forget to call. You probably would. maby you should have called him if he didnt call. because some times you do for get things if he does it all the time then you should be pissed but if it happens once and a while it shouldnt matter
2006-09-13 04:40:48 · answer #8 · answered by unkown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you ARE making a big deal out of this. It has been my experience that guys really do forget. They get with their friends and "poof" guy talk and fun begins and we the girlfriends get forgotten. Doens't mean they don't care about us. Hang in there and get used to it.
2006-09-13 04:46:19 · answer #9 · answered by to_sassy4_u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a man.. this is what they do best.. most men suck. youll get used to it. not saying all men do but yeah usually... if he makes a habit of it then say something to him if not then let it go.. at least he called.. maybe not right when he was supposed to but it was the same day so in guy time it was on time.. other then that i dont know what to tell you.. next time call him and see whats going on before you get to mad.
2006-09-13 04:45:16 · answer #10 · answered by angela h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋