It makes it hard for him to want to do anything bad or wrong. She isn't possessive or jealous at all or keeps tabs on him. Her boyfriend said that it almost makes him feel like he is in a cage because he gets to do almost anything he wants without my friend really giving him a hard time. He says that he is used to his past girlfriends being really possessive and selfish that he had a reason to fight with them.
Does this make sense that he feels hooked to her because she doesn't give him a hard time at all and is so sweet to him? Another guy friend of mine said that it is a guy's dream to have a woman so easygoing and nagless. Is this a bad thing or good thing?
2006-09-13 04:32:38 · 10 answers · asked by lc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it can go either way. If he is cheating and she dosnt care she is hurting her self. she could get a diseas from him if he sleeps around. And if she nags he could leave because she gets to annoying. also if she dosnt nag he might feel guilty that he does it so he wont do it. or if she nags he might feel guilty as well and stop it all depends on what kind of man or women you have and how much they do it or dont do it
2006-09-13 04:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by unkown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men tend to think that love means being pushy and possessive, when in reality when there is real love there is space to be yourself and time to do what you like to do. I think he is used to dating women with a very low self esteem, and now that he has a girl that seems to know what she wants and has high self esteem , he doesn't know how to react. That only tells me that he has a low self esteem too and unconsciously feels he is not his girls interest because she is not all over him. It seems like he's got a good stable woman by his side but he might loose her if he doesn't believe in himself.
2006-09-13 11:39:42 · answer #2 · answered by wonderwoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
proverbs 21 better to live on the corner of the roof than have a nagging wife so yeah its a real good thing.
2006-09-13 11:35:18 · answer #3 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be either. Overdoing it is possessive, underdoing it makes it like she doesn't give a damn what he does. I think a halfway in between would be normal.
2006-09-13 11:36:23 · answer #4 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men like this kind of woman, like to be with him and doesn't quite need him, that's good n nice, but some women when they fall in love they can't stay that careless
2006-09-13 11:59:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called trust. It is not a cage, but empowering. He needs to flush out his head gear and enjoy her.
2006-09-13 11:36:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could only be two things OK
1 maybe she in love with someone else and he left her so she don;t care about him now
2 she so in love with him and trust him alot and he should be great fully to that if he broke her trust then he going loss her forever
2006-09-13 11:38:09 · answer #7 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think it would be a good thing.
2006-09-13 11:37:03 · answer #8 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good thing girlfriend!!
2006-09-13 11:37:33 · answer #9 · answered by Kevin H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like her boyfriend is a jerk... and she is just lovely!!!! :D
2006-09-13 11:36:00 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋