Alright i meet a really amazing girl, and I asked if she wanted to come over and work on some homework and she gave me her number. What do I say when I call her? And do you think she likes me? I also have a slight problem. There is this other girl that has been staking me, I think she is going to leave me alone now but, I was a real *** to get her to go away. How do I tell her?
2006-09-13 04:30:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you call... "hi, would you like to come over to study?" That's a no-brainer... she gave you the number in order to work on homework... she's given you the excuse... now you just need to use it.
As for the "How do I tell her?" I assume you are trying to find a way to let the new girl know about the stalker girl. The best way is to just let her know while you are studying in a matter-of-fact way (kinda like the way you described it above). She should understand.
2006-09-13 04:36:04 · answer #1 · answered by 1Jazzy1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay first off, call her up and for one, tell her who it is. Second, just stay calm and ask what day would be good for her to work on homework, plus don't forget to ask how she's doing? If you need to pick her up, maybe even have her stay for dinner? Don't get the impression that she likes you just because she said she'd come over. She could and could not. Now about that other girl, if she's gone then she's gone, if she's not gone then tell her you don't like her she needs to move on and that you can still be friends. If that doesn't work, dude call the cops, yeah its flattering being stalked in a way but still its creepy. Need any more help, let me know.
2006-09-13 11:40:14 · answer #2 · answered by Cait 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, even though I didn't this time, i think u should keep it slow and c what happens. How well do u know this gal if u met? ill tell the truth about me now, the same day I met my bf is the same day we become a couple and its been 3 weeks. But honestly, how i was in the past is maybe see if u can plan something, then call her and ask if she's busy. See if u can have some little get together to see more about what u have incommon ( and don't )
2006-09-13 11:43:21 · answer #3 · answered by Artsy 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the girl gave you her number then you're in automatically. Juts call her to say hi, make stupid conversation and ask if the offer is still on the table. As for the other girl, honesty is the best policy. Guys make the mistake of sugar coating things for us girls. So just tell her the truth without being an ***.
2006-09-13 11:38:17 · answer #4 · answered by sandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get the question. You've already told the other girl who has been 'staking' [is that supposed to be stalking] you to go away. Why would you tell her anything? And if you're 'into' the other girl, and she gave you her phone #, I would say that's a start. And you've already asked her to come over to work on some homework - so all you have to do is confirm that.
2006-09-13 11:34:49 · answer #5 · answered by theophilus 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you need help that's for sure...first off if you are hot enough to have a stalker you should leave this amazing girl and get with me! if that doesn't work out then...when you call her just tell her you enjoy her company. She'll be left thinking if you mean that in a friend way or in a i-like-you-more-than-a-friend way. then when she comes over for "homework" flirt a little, compliment her (not in a cheesy way) and let the magic happen. I'm sure by the end of the night if she is flirting back, you can just ask her out.
As for your stalker...two words...restraining order
2006-09-13 11:31:46 · answer #6 · answered by yara c 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well call her as arranged since she gave u her number, u mustn't tell her something big just say u jst wanted to hear her voice and to invite her over to ur place, yes she likes u since she gave u her number. the other girl will see to her self when she sees u with this present one dont tell her to go away that's not the way to treat a lady but always shone her especially when u're with this present one. actions speaks louder than voice. GOODLUCK
2006-09-13 11:38:47 · answer #7 · answered by amy a' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
finnally a men with some common sense.. call the girl you like and ask her come over.. dont lie to get her over though or ask if she would want to meet some where in public to make her more comfortable. and if she gave you her number she was thinking about you
2006-09-13 11:33:29 · answer #8 · answered by callie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, relax. Do you really need to tell her about a stalker girl? When you call this girl you like, relax and be cool and just ask her how she is and show an interest but not too keen. The main thing is that you enjoy yourself and stop worrying about where things are going to lead.
2006-09-13 11:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by Ruth 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just call the new girl and set up a time and place to do homework. Tell the other girl that you aren't interested in her other than as a friend.
2006-09-13 11:33:28 · answer #10 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋