my mom told me this way back when I was a teenager, but she is a pastors wife and sometimes I still remember that..
2006-09-13 04:30:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends how much you... do you practicually live together... does the guy have comitment issues?
2006-09-13 08:47:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to think about what your definition of marriage and commitment is. Pastor's wives have just as decent a sex life as anyone else, so don't let anyone pooh-pooh your mom. She is right. There is a reason women play hard-to-get, and that doesn't mean tricking a guy, it just means that if he really wants you, and there is a very good, strong relationship between the two of you - he will respect you for the decisions you make.
2006-09-13 14:54:00 · answer #2 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Many men will simple leave or if the marriage is an otherwise solid one he will simply get what he wants on the side. And he won't feel a bit guilty about it because he'll say "Well, you won't do XYZ, so why should you be jealous!?!"
I've seen it a hundred times! Keep him in YOUR bed by making him want to come there every night!
2006-09-13 11:33:26 · answer #3 · answered by Billy! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, as long as YOU are the one he is in the bedroom with, I think you would be better off giving him his fantasy. If you are not making him content in YOUR bedroom, you can bet your last pair of granny panties that he will be getting his contentment with some hot young girl eventually.
2006-09-13 11:34:36 · answer #4 · answered by Roger S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me ask you this in response... Do you purchase a vehicle without at least having a test drive? Let him sample the goods to know what he is getting, why would he not marry you if you show him some action? Go get'em tiger.
2006-09-13 11:35:08 · answer #5 · answered by VeeateU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some tiems its true but not for all men all people are different no one is exactly the same. What you can do is try to make sex more interested when one or both of you gets board.
2006-09-13 11:33:31 · answer #6 · answered by unkown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then should you not get what you want in the bedroom?
that seems like game playing to me
2006-09-13 11:32:31 · answer #7 · answered by bregweidd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just the opposite..give him what he wants and he will keep coming back
2006-09-13 11:33:14 · answer #8 · answered by dwh12345 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if a man is going to love you he will love even if you have sex or not with him...i think its all about the love, when a man loves you he loves you no matter...
2006-09-13 11:32:46 · answer #9 · answered by GotAnswers? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if i got what i wanted they i wanted it then i am going nowhere
2006-09-13 11:34:46 · answer #10 · answered by Eric 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋