Why do men when they see a beautiful woman or an ugly one half naked walk by stare at them? Especially those in a relationship.. I think it is rude.. then they use the excuse.. I am a man I am gonna look blah blah...
2006-09-13 04:22:12 · 32 answers · asked by Clints_wench 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Exactly it is disrespectful when your partner is around... also if they talk about it.. makes me feel like chop liver
2006-09-13 04:41:01 · update #1
vanb explained it to a tee.....
2006-09-13 04:42:18 · update #2
It is rude to ogle over women. My wife is gorgeous and I have to make myself not look. I love my wife and don't want to look at other women. Lots of guys say its ok to look, just not touch. That is a load of crap. If you are having lustful thoughts, IT IS WRONG! It is a sign of disrespect. If a woman catches a guy looking at her in a way not fitting, she is usually repulsed.
2006-09-13 04:29:32 · answer #1 · answered by vanb11 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well I wouldn't dwell to deep on it. Yes it is very rude to be with a woman and look at other girls, but at the same time it's a vital part of human biology. I mean you started the same way, the guy looked at you right?
So don't be bothered if its an occasional glance most guys can't help it, but if it is a full fledged stare I'd lose the guy.
2006-09-13 04:26:17 · answer #2 · answered by Jdeuel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good question.We are actually genetically programmed to be visual and are prone to staring at women.Sure a guy can exert self control and not look but our brain is screaming "look" all the time.Looking at a woman for a man means nothing.Doesn't mean he wants her at all! Doesn't mean he thinks the woman he's with isn't as attractive.In fact when I look at most women the most I might think is "she's hot!"2 secs later she's forgotten!
2006-09-13 04:27:30 · answer #3 · answered by drokk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because they are half-naked. My husband don't do that anymore. He has more respect than that because I gave him a dose of his own medicine. When we were first dating, and still "playing the game", I caught him looking at a woman's butt. He was not being overly disgusting about it, but it was enough to make me mad. So I went up to the girl (he didn't know I had saw him look, lol) and had her come with me to where he was sitting, and I said "I apologize for having to bring you over here, but my husband was staring at your a*s and I figured I'd let him see it up close".... she laughed and he turned the "prettiest" shade of red I have ever seen. We still laugh about this today, and that was like eight years ago... but, he don't look anymore..
2006-09-13 04:28:06 · answer #4 · answered by carolina_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man is in a relationship and with that woman at the time there is no excuse for staring and the woman should kick him to the curb. Beyond that though men are visual. If there is something to look at and no reason to not look then they will.
2006-09-13 04:27:34 · answer #5 · answered by rkrell 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
paula you see men are sexual creaptures they want sex but its really not their fault. you see if no one wanted sex there wouldnt be any one. They get turned on by what makes the best babies. ITs very scientific if you look into it. Deep down men want to make babies because its in their dna. See they like skinny women because they will be the best canidates for the baby they also like big breats because they need somthing to feed the babies with. look it up I did and it is very interesting. sorry i am a male and i hate the way i think some tiems because i do want love but some times its hard to find for this reason i can keep it undercontrol but some times thats not good enough for me
2006-09-13 04:26:40 · answer #6 · answered by unkown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, men are gonna be men. my man knows that I dont appreciate him looking at other women but its in their nature. thats like a blonde will get the attention real quick. it doesnt matter if she's ugle or pretty. it's like when they see blonde, they are automatically drawn to look! I told my man if he's gonna look at other women, expect me to look at the other men. I make it obvious sometimes. I've started making comments about other men. If you have a man that does that, start checking out other men and make some comments. He wont put up with it for long
2006-09-13 04:42:36 · answer #7 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are HUMAN, not men. Humans are sexual beings and we all do it. The thing is, why do girls in a relationship freak out about it and get jelous? He's only looking at her, but going home with you. My ex used to do it just to pick a fight. My new man looks then smiles at me and I look and we rate her 1-10 its like our game. But he never leaves my side cuz there is trust. Don't make a big deal out of it, it may even subside when you stop caring.
2006-09-13 04:26:55 · answer #8 · answered by Slutlana 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We men get turn on with looks, while you gurls get turn on with touches. That's the wonderful law of nature. I think we can't do anything to that. But that doesn't mean that a guy must sleep with all the gurls there are that are naked (lol). The same way a gurl won't sleep with every guy that touches her.
2006-09-13 04:27:49 · answer #9 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, its very disrespectful. all guys that has a girlfriend should be blindfolded - on and off, at the girlfriend's leisure. better still, girls should chain us guys or get a leash and tie us to the end of your bed so we dint go anywhere else. if you wanna take a step further, you can dig out both of your boyfriend's eye balls and keep it on your study desk as an ornament. yes, we men do like to be conquered by women, listen to what we are told and obey to all the commands. please bicth to us coz its like a music to our ears and we love to comment on how beautiful you are.
2006-09-13 06:49:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋