Will this settle down... we are both very interested in a long term thing with each other.
2006-09-13 04:19:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk on the phone anjd take short public dates
2006-09-13 08:46:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's how I am now with my bf, We just have a strong connection physical and mental we haven't been together all that long but we both feel like we've known each other forever. I personally don't want that feeling to "settle down" or go away. Go to more public places where you can't be all over each other, then you can talk, and get to know him.
2006-09-13 11:30:23 · answer #2 · answered by VEGAS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had great love and lost it in my life. In my experience, the things that start with a flash of fire quickly often end up ending in a flash too. Find out if you have more in common then just sex. Sex is wonderful, but there has to be more to it than just sex because eventually you will slow down on the passion... maybe only a little but still some. AND when you do that.... you will be glad if there is something else there like common interests.
2006-09-13 11:25:24 · answer #3 · answered by Roger S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys have an instant sexual attraction to each other there is nothing wrong with that. Just dont let that be the only thing you have in common and dont base or build your relationship around it. Make time to get to know him intellectually. Its good that you both are looking for longterm but make sure you 2 are compatible in more ways than sexually before you assume that its automatically gonna work
2006-09-13 11:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by superbad~honeydip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy this time of lust right now. One way to get to know each other is to schedule dates to do things that each of you has an interest in. This will get you two out in public and give each of you a chance to share your interests and passions with each other beyond the bedroom.
2006-09-13 11:23:24 · answer #5 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*Self* *control*. If you really want to "get to know him", exercise a little self control. Go somewhere during the day like a public park or mall so that you guys can talk and get to know each other without being able to get sidetracked. You won't know for real if you're interested in the long-term until you can *actually* get to know him, not just his physical attributes and how much you like to get freaky.
2006-09-13 11:22:26 · answer #6 · answered by Caroslin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like things are based on physical attraction.Maybe try talking on the phone more that way you can't put your hands all over him.If conversation is dull or boring then it's def just physical and you shouldn't plan on long term happiness.
2006-09-13 11:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by drokk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a very strong attraction, but is it reciprocated. You don't want to be the initiator - and if you're interested in the long term, why don't you slow down.
2006-09-13 11:21:42 · answer #8 · answered by theophilus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fires of passion inevitably settle. A roaring conflagration can sometimes rage uncontrollably, consuming everything in its path before it burns itself out because there is nothing left to consume. Then all that is left in such cases are ashes, and a deep sense of emptiness.
Talk to your beloved, and let him know what your concerns are. Passion can be a beautiful thing, when it is tempered with a heartfelt willingness to get to know one another and let things unfold over time.
2006-09-13 11:20:33 · answer #9 · answered by ... 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you both are intrested in a long term relationship then you can be all over each other like white on rice.
2006-09-13 11:22:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lust really isnt the worst thing in the world. It might send him the wrong message if you wanna set up a long-term thing... but I wouldnt worry too much about it.
2006-09-13 11:20:37 · answer #11 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋