Hey, i was at my work night out last night and it was a great banter! We went to megabowl and then after afew games, people went their seperate ways. Six of us decided we would go out drinking, one of these persons i have really strong feelings for. We went to a club and didn't get home until half 2 this morning. This guy and I were talking in the club and even though there were afew silences, i really enjoyed the night. We were flirting a little bit as well but because there were other people with us (four others), we didn't do anything, but we were touching each other quite a bit. I haven't said anything to him about how i feel but at the minute i really want to, the only drawback is people at work love gossip so if i was to say anything, it would be all around work in no time, although how i feel, if he felt the same way i don't think i would mind. I did admit to one of my friends from work about this last night which is the first time i have said anything.
2006-09-13 04:13:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How do i go about telling this guy how i feel and should i do it at work or get his number and meet up with him?
2006-09-13 04:17:37 · update #1
I work in a restaurant and work full-time during the holidays and part-time when i'm at university.
2006-09-13 04:20:25 · update #2
Have a frank conversation with him.
Your dilemma will clear up... and there is no other sure-shot way! If you dont voice your feelings, you might never get the opportunity again.
Imagine the worst case, and plunge into the situation, if you feel it is all worth it!
Do it where ever you can be sure to have a good atmosphere, and you will be comfortable to have a heart-to-heart talk.
2006-09-13 04:18:14 · answer #1 · answered by Ameya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you work with this guy?
Dating someone you work with has its positives and negatives..
A negative is co-workers dating is usually against company policy and if people gossip then it is sure to get out to possibly the wrong people. If that's not an issue with you, and you both have feelings for each other then why not?
A positive would be that you would most likely be able to see each other often throughout the day, which could also end up being a negative..
2006-09-13 11:21:31 · answer #2 · answered by Bridezilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the people at work love gossip then maybe you shouldn't say anyghing to them right now until you have talked to him. One way you could try is when there are a few people around not just you and him ask everyone what they are doing that night or over the weekend and really listen to what he says and if he says not much or that he might go out and do somthing but now sure what maybe agree and say something similar and then when everyone leaves try talking to just him or somehow run into him when your leaving and it's just you to and ask him if maybe he'd like to go to dinner or to a movie and see where that leads you. then just talk and relax it won't hurt just to ask.
2006-09-13 11:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by babydoll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
****, it may not even help, but im in a local aussie band and i fell in live with my guitarists girlfriend,,,,, i think she likes me more too, coz she was all over me one night, but if i say anything, the band, friendships etc, all over, and we are on the verge of breaking it big time in aus, i knew this girl for 10 years before i met my guitarist separitely and then her again through him (make sense) i love her, i talked to her on Msn and she plaY MIKAILA- so in love with two, i think she love me. If i reak, the band does too...
he like you, as soon as there a silence, he like you, just talk to him,(if u talk to him out of work he will know u are asking about HIM, and most guys will do the rest for u!!! he he good luck!
2006-09-13 11:21:48 · answer #4 · answered by Frooshanti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont tell him. Most companies frown on inter-office relationships and if you did start dating and it didnt work out, you both would be uncomfortable at work. Sometimes its better to just keep your feelings to yourself
2006-09-13 11:17:26 · answer #5 · answered by GAgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him to say something
2006-09-13 11:23:24 · answer #6 · answered by ym 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋