We have an affair.We both love each other.Well 2 days from now,he need to be back at his place.Well i just can't imagine myself without him?What should i do?
2006-09-13 04:07:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What goes around will surely come around!
When one day, you finally snatch him away from his family (wife and children)... he may still not be yours. He may cheat on you as well. If you really care for advice, move out of this situation at the earliest opportunity.
2006-09-13 04:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by Ameya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world would you love a man that obviously has no morals or values? He is disrespecting you as well as his wife. Why do I think morals or values mean anything to you since you are well aware that he is married and have chosen to disregard that fact. Let's pretend he is going to leave his wife to be with you, which he won't, but let's just say he does.....now you have a man in your life that has already proven he can't be trusted, he's already proven that commitment means nothing, marriage vows mean nothing and he'll think nothing of you when he's cheating with the next one that comes along. If he cheats with you, he'll cheat on you....and to be honest, you deserve the pain & heartbreak he'll put you through. What exactly goes through your mind when he's at home having sex with his wife?? And how does it feel that he uses you for sloppy seconds. Gross! Give me a break!
2006-09-13 04:38:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imagine yourself sitting up in divorce court as the woman who destroyed somebody else's marriage.
Think about it a minute, How comfortable are you with the thought of him going back to her and dipping his wick, and then coming back to you and doing the same. You OK with his having sex with two women/ You really think he's not doing her? Come on!
He's CHEATING! You want a cheater for a mate?
Find yourself somebody who's available, or wait until he is.
2006-09-13 04:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you so much, then why is he still married to another woman? Tell him he must choose because what you both are doing is very wrong! Not to mention very unfair to his WIFE! Put yourself in her shoes. Nobody deserves being cheated on. If you find someone else, get divorced and move on.
2006-09-13 04:12:00 · answer #4 · answered by ticktock 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is married it is real hard. if he realy loves you then he would get a devorse. but i understand because i have been inlove with a maried man for a year. he said that he wants to leave his wife but wont and when he talks to he he tells her he lovers her. so i hade to get on track and find someone that will love me and only me. if he dont leave his wife then he doesnt realy love you he just knows he can get what he wants and still be married. i am living this right now so i under stand.
2006-09-13 04:18:10 · answer #5 · answered by kathy froggylady40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he's married but having an affair with you? Hmm it means that he's cheating on his wife. So if he can cheat on his wife, he will be able to cheat on you one day.. Just sending you an alert.
2006-09-13 04:17:39 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT THE HECK IS YOUR PROBLEM GOING AFTER A MARRIED MAN? WHAT YOU DID IS WRONG? IT COULD MESS UP HIS MARRIAGE.....just because of an affair.....plus he might do the same thing to you.....he might cheat on you too......he might even cheated with other women too
2006-09-13 04:10:32 · answer #7 · answered by mommie2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question 1 = NO, NO, NO
Question 2 = Give it up (which you already knew)
Good luck - 'till you ask this same question(s) again. . .
2006-09-13 04:14:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you, he would leave his wife...He should be your husband and stay with you.. It's not a great feeling being a mistress....I've been there before..
2006-09-13 04:09:55 · answer #9 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont become the other woman in his life. if you have chosen this kind of life accept it.if he really loves you he should have come come to you.i think you should leave him and move on.
2006-09-13 04:13:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋