This is a long story but I'm going to make it short. I met him and he was crazy about me. He asked me out and I always refused to go out with him. Finally I accepted. We started going out on our second week dating we had sex. He kept seen each other until we had a fight because he wanted to do all the work when we had sex. After a week without seen each other I called. He said he didn't call before because he thought I was mad at him. The next day I went to his house and when again the same thing happened. He doesn't want to please me. Ater 2 weeks I called text him and he said he was going to call me the day after to go out. He did call and we decided to go out on the next day. When I called him he said he was going out with his friends and that he coud'nt make it to our date. Now two week have passed and he hasn't called. He is 13 years older than me. Please what do you think.
2006-09-13 03:24:47 · 38 answers · asked by princess22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just hope u didn't develop any feelings for the old dude. Truth might hurt but u have to face it. If he calls u any time soon , it will b for his own pleasure, and then again he'll disappear. If the sex is only good for him , really dunno why r u still around waiting for a miracle, it ain't gonna happen , nope.
P.S. If u can make him to give u head before u do and than just get up and go... That would b the perfect ending of ur story.
I'm sure u gonna show him who's the *****
2006-09-13 03:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by leed 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey
i just read about your dilemma and im no expert but this is my opinion....
1. Age doesn't matter
2. I dont think he was using you for sex.
If you felt there was a connection between the 2 of you than the chances are there probably was and possibly still is, a deep emotional connection between the 2 of you.
i think a lot of people, no matter what age, sex, religion, or race, get very confused when they find someone who they have feelings for
which is sad, but unfortunetly life doesnt always go the way we want it too
whether or not you should try to contact him or wait until he contacts you is up to your own judgement, but if you do decide to give him a call, only do it once and then leave the ball in his court
if you really like him, dont let sex ruin a relationship. if there are other problems then always remember that compromise is the key to any relationship working and this needs to come from both of you.
hope it works out.
2006-09-13 03:52:55 · answer #2 · answered by miss2sexc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus MacChrist, are you kiddin me??
This guy is a low life, scum of the Earth! He didn't make love to you, he didn't even have sex with you, he f*cked you! He-f*cked-you! And that's exactly what he had in mind since the first day he called you out! All he wanted was a good f*ck with a hot chick! And that's precisely what he got.
I know guys exactly like him, and my advice is not to pretend it never happened, but to also look at it as just a f*ck. Maybe not the best f*ck, but a f*ck nonetheless.
Can I say something that may hurt you a little? It's really not my intention to hurt you any further, but I really have to say this, ok: he's probably forgotten all about you. Furthermore, he'll probably give you a call a few weeks from now when he has no one else to f*ck with. And make me just one simple promise: you'll say NO. Got that?
It's for your own damn good, I hope you realise this.
You don't look like the type of girl that takes many advice. Give this one a try, though, alright?
Best of luck to you! ;)
2006-09-13 03:35:29 · answer #3 · answered by cesarbrasil1911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the first mistake was saying YES to his date , u should have known better in going out with someone so much older than u. older men get into a routine or as my grandma would say " set in his ways" any way the point is u cant change him and u cant make them try out new things. If u really do like him u need to sit down and talk to him and see if there is any hope for the 2 of u if not then i would say move on and try to find someone ur own age. remember sex doesnt make a relationship it just makes it better and helps with stress LOL good luck with ur decision
2006-09-13 03:34:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It surprises me that a mature guy would want to do all the work in bed when his partner is so willing to do some. It could possibly be an inferiority complex he is trying to hide under his macho show. Or is he so old fashioned. Ever tried to talk sex with him. what i mean here is his likes dislikes, fantasies, interest in foreplay etc. You need to control yrself if u want him to change. ask yrself if its a case of 'familiarity breeds contempt'. If so u either have the guts not to put out to him every time he is in the mood or continue berating yrself, or simply move on
2006-09-13 03:39:09 · answer #5 · answered by bore2death 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow where to start. First off I don't know how old you are but Older men can be intriguing but 13 years older is a bit much. Almost like dating dad or uncle Bob but if you like that kinda thing.
Why are you wanting to still see him if you are not getting out of the relationship what you need and he is obliviously unconcerned with your needs. Drop him like a bad habit (they are never easy to drop) and find someone more in-tuned to what you need physically and mentally.
2006-09-13 03:32:19 · answer #6 · answered by squekie0874 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him cause he has forgotten about you, usually a guy doesnt think much of a woman when she gives it up to him in less than a month, next time wait and dont put yourself in such situations, if you can see, first he was after you then you gave it up and shown by how he behaved in bed thats all he wanted, now you are the one who is after him and besides he thinks you are a little girl or he could be married, just forget about him, there are better guys out there and you desrve much better and you are worth much more
2006-09-13 03:31:07 · answer #7 · answered by babejules2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was using u for sex... He don't care to him ur just a "nut". Forget about his losser *** and move on.. U will find the man who only wants and worries if he pleases u. Him being 13 yrs older just shows he is stuck in his ways and u'll never get more than now.
2006-09-13 03:29:59 · answer #8 · answered by raynemarie03 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's over. Move on!
13 years older is too much of an age difference for each of you to have anything in common.
2006-09-13 03:28:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it is time to find a new man. Sounds like he is just in it for the booty call. And, if he isn't really doing anything special for you, then is there really any reason to hand around and wait. I believe you can do better by yourself or in the shower. That is better than bad sex
2006-09-13 03:27:49 · answer #10 · answered by JUNONNKI 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋