my grand mother is very sick.she is between this world and that world and i can't uunderstand what can i do for her and also for my self to be relax?
2006-09-13 03:23:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just let her be and indulge your self in her world. where ever that may be.... tell her stories, play with toys and just baby her, its a stage alot of people go through in sickness, as for yourself it sounds like its time for a stiff drink and a a couple of hours just to yourself.
2006-09-13 03:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by mumalo36 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG. I think you should try and be there for her. Go and see her if you can and tell her you love her. Thats really just about the only thing left for you to do for her. If you are finding it hard to relax, go and see your doctor, you might get valium or something, and i will just help to take the edge off of things for you just now, or if you dont want to go down the route of meds, ask for a councillor and ask them to help with relaxation techniques that you can use anywhere. Or when you have some free time, time on your own, have a relaxing bath or go for a massage.
2006-09-13 03:30:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey i feel for you but there isnt much you can do for her, just stay by her side let her know you are there. For yourself relax god takes us as he wants us if its her time just realize she is in a better place and isnt hurting anymore. You need some time alone for yourself too, maybe try reading a book or taking a walk or something like that. Good Luck to you.
2006-09-13 03:28:42 · answer #3 · answered by bradosmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My grandmother is actually in the same position. They have told the family that there is no more to do for her we just have to wait.
There probably isn't anything you can do for her. Be there and tell her you love her and that it's ok to rest now. As far as yourself you have to learn to be ok with what is happening. It's very hard to deal with but it is a part of life. Best Wishes
2006-09-13 03:28:02 · answer #4 · answered by amy d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Calm down dear. Cheer up, dont be sad, she will be fine. Take Care of her & urself too... Dont worry.
God bless you.
2006-09-13 03:26:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her to the hospital, and take a long walk
2006-09-13 03:30:53 · answer #6 · answered by Lil mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray, baby, pray!!!!! pray 4 her salvation and then put ur life in gods hands!!!
2006-09-13 03:30:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋