how long does this keep you interested? do you think a woman who changes her mind constantly a good/bad thing or is it annoying or do you find it a challenge?
2006-09-13 03:18:05 · 27 answers · asked by mz.hunnie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks guys, so most of you dont like it, good to know
2006-09-13 04:02:28 · update #1
1. No playing games is not fun.
2. I am not interested in playing games.
3. A woman who changes her mind constantly and is highly annoying. Her indecisiveness or "act" is a sign of a simple and often confused small minded person. Why would anyone be challenged by someone so trifling.
Oh and let me guess, you do all of the above.
Figures.
2006-09-13 03:21:28 · answer #1 · answered by Tunasandwich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little teasing and flirtation in the getting process can be fun, but only to a certain point. For the most part, head games are annoying and ultimately counter-productive because who really wants to be in a relationship like that long term. As for a women who can't make up her mind, that is annoying. I don't mind if there is a process while a woman makes up her mind, because sometimes I have trouble settling on a decision, but if it is constant thing that would be bad. I doubt I would be able to stay with someone who is always indecisive or who is pretending to be in order to play some game with me.
2006-09-13 10:23:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play games with men honey - it 'll work for a short time, but that's it. If you genuinely are hard to get, great. If you change your mind a lot - great. Don't try to win someone or keep someone in this way, as it'll come back to bite you in the rear in the long run. Are you asking this question so that you can modify who you are based on the answer? Do you know who you are? If not, it would be very helpful to you to discover it, and not by finding out what guys think. . . but by finding out what you think. I'm not trying to romp on you, its just that I've been there and I've found that what guys really really really like is a girl who knows her own mind and doesn't play games. Good luck to you sweetie.
2006-09-13 10:24:57 · answer #3 · answered by belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be, if I eventually GET her.....and if it goes on to long, then yes, I'll move on to something else. Everyone changes their mind, but someone who does it constantly either has no clue what they want or they are playing games, either way it is a turnoff and most people will lose interest.
A relationship, most times, is challenging enough once two people decide to pursue it. So constantly playing hard to get or constantly changing one's mind will kill the relationship over time....
2006-09-13 10:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing hard to get isnt the way to go! The best thing to do is not b too available let him chase you, decide when your meetn etc, but the main thing is dont seem that bothered by him, if he cancels dnt seem gutted jst pretend you are now going out with friends, but what ever you do dont talk bout relationship or love or babies or marriage or anything like that until he brings it up!!
2006-09-13 10:22:34 · answer #5 · answered by Stuart C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman but to tell you the truth me and my husband never got along until i did play hard to get, some men want you to be this way the want things they cant have. But this is also someone that has cheated on me also, again because they want what they cant have. Be careful girl if you have a man like that.
2006-09-13 10:21:38 · answer #6 · answered by bradosmom 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If the game goes on too long it gets old and time to move on to no game playing. Although I think we men enjoy the chase, we aren't willing to follow along for too long. Women who play games are too much trouble. Honesty will get you alot further with a real man.
2006-09-13 10:21:55 · answer #7 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate when women do that. It's hard enough for us guys to get a read on a woman as it is. And if they constantly change their mind it drives me insane!! Why do you women have to be like that?!?!
2006-09-13 10:20:01 · answer #8 · answered by Drunk365 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My personal opinion is that I really dont like it when a woman plays hard to get. If a woman likes me then she must not pretend that she doesnt like me. Playing hard to get is a waste of time, that you could have spent with each other!
2006-09-13 10:22:13 · answer #9 · answered by Andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she changes her mind then its annoying as hell. But to play hard to get is a challenge.... but not toolong or we get bored.
2006-09-13 10:19:56 · answer #10 · answered by SurfCop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋