Me and my friend met this guy at a dance, and since then we have been talking to him. We both know each other is talking to him, but i feel very lead on and jealous of how often they talk. I agreed to go out with him, but i know he is gonna go out with my friend. He has asked me for all these sexual favors and i have agreed only becuase i want to have him and not let my friend take him. He has been talking to her more though, so i think i want to get over him.What should i do??
2006-09-13 02:26:10 · 37 answers · asked by Hazel eyed beauty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess this guy is playing games between the two of you,you need to be careful and your freind also ,I think you need to speak with her tell everything about it,to avoid her also.I think this guy had bad intentions,he wants to get the two of you.
2006-09-13 02:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by AmandaNikolah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off you should have never agreed to do sexual favors for him just because you like him and want to get him before your friend because guys see that as easy and then they look at you bad....just sit back and think about it you don't want no man who is talking to your friend also right there that should let you know he is a dog if he can want somehting to do with the both of you...I bet you are still young and go out and party have fun you will find and meet tons of men in your life...just be careful
2006-09-13 02:31:15 · answer #2 · answered by MZ.LANDA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have already taste the water and it seems that it is not favoring your way, so it is just right to let him go. Now, what you should do is to give your support to the budding relationship of the guy and your friend. Inform your friend about your decision and feelings toward the guy and let her be assure that will support her all the way. Remember, it is hard to find a true friend.
2006-09-13 02:34:40 · answer #3 · answered by jlaniwan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, do not say you will do something you do not want to do, and I understand you and your friend both like the same guy, but it sounds to me like he has already chosen who he likes cause he talks to her more then you, and do not let no guy ruin a friendship ok its really not worth it in the long run, there are more fish in the sea, keep looking its just a crush and it will vanish until the next cute boy comes along.
2006-09-13 02:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sincerely both of u are not true friend and i hope u don t have sex with him cause if u do u will hate ur self 4 it cos what ever he does 4 u ,he will also do it 2 ur friend too.i just think u should quit him and put a halt to the relationship btw u and d guyand look else where or u will regret ur actions.
2006-09-13 02:40:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No man is good enough to fight over. Look at it. He's getting is way with both of you.You're giving him what he wants
Most men are dogs, like this one. Go and find one of the 'real' men out there that doesnt leave you asking questions on here.
2006-09-13 02:37:51 · answer #6 · answered by Peaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should grow up and stop thinking that trading your body for being liked is revolting and cheap. Where is your self-respect and sense of worth? Talk to your parents about how little value you place on your body and yourself as a person. Ask them to get some help for you.
2006-09-13 02:29:24 · answer #7 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sexual favors to a stranger? How much is he paying you? You do realize that he just thinks he's playing you both and you are making him feel like a "man"? I thought women agreed not to do this...you know women lib? So much for that......Great job speedy.
2006-09-13 02:29:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is going to sleep with you both then leave you both so at least you will have an ex friend who got used just like you maybe the embarrassment will help you get your friendship back.
2006-09-13 02:30:38 · answer #9 · answered by King Scott 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You talk this out with your friend. Let a new guy not come in the way of your good friendship.
2006-09-13 02:28:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋