i dont want to get her in trouble. i told my teacher i got hit by a car and the grill left a mark (yukon denali)
2006-09-13 02:23:54 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This from someone who both physically and verbally abused as a child. Unless you want problems dealing with relationships in the future get your mother the help she needs by telling everyone who will listen until someone does something about it then get your butt into counseling now !!! And remember you are not the one doing something wrong it is her. You need to realize that no matter what you do or don't do she will be like this until she gets help. This is serious abuse !!
2006-09-13 04:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by TINA B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will also mention; I hope you're serious - this isn't funny.
Beating you to leave marks is abuse. As others said - talk. School counselor, family member, any adult you trust.
Telling doesn't always mean you will be taken away and your Mom will go to jail. I don't know your situation, but if she's a good Mom otherwise, there are programs that could offer her some help. She could be referred to parenting classes or anger management or something like that.
2006-09-13 03:06:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother is breaking the law, by hitting you with something. In the UK it is illegal to hit a child. She obviously thinks its okay to assault you in such a way, and if she's hitting you and its leaving a mark that's even worst. I don't know if you can do this, but maybe mention to your mum that a teacher actually noticed the marks on your head and buttocks. It might deter her. If school contiune to see marks on you, its their duty to contact Social Services. Your mother is abusing you! She your mother realise she can cause deafness, by hitting you on your head!
2006-09-13 02:36:26 · answer #3 · answered by trackie1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would advise you to speak to a close relative...maybe your dad? If not, talk to grandparents...someone close and ask for their help. Abuse is not just to the body, it also damages the heart and mind....maybe be your mom needs professional help too. I hope you can forgive her for the wrong because that is the first step toward healing. Should you seek legal (my law firm) or personal (me) help, email me at anytime.
* If she beats you is due to a really "bad" thing you had done...then, the beating might actually hurt her more then it hurts you. There is no greater love then a parent's love to their child.
2006-09-13 02:52:03 · answer #4 · answered by micky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one your mom needs to learn the difference between a tennis ball and and her daughter... Your mom defiantely has some issues and its not gonna do you any good to stick up for her if shes abusing you. Tell a family member about it or a school counselor and let them do what they have to. You have to face it... your mom needs professional help and she may love you but its wrong what shes doing. If you don't do anything about it..it WILL get worse and you'll regret not saying anything sooner, so if you love your mom...help her get some help..
2006-09-13 02:32:16 · answer #5 · answered by Charmed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what? you don't want to get her in trouble? she is abusing you! no matter how you look at it this is wrong! I know she is your mum and you love her. But if you go to someone about this then you wont just be helping you, you will also be helping her, she will get help. or it will be given to her.
You need to get this sorted out now, before something seriously bad happens!
Plus once you both have got help. you can live your lives together, trust me she wont be around forever, so get this fixed.....at least try!!!
2006-09-13 02:32:33 · answer #6 · answered by lz_baxter 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What have you done to make her beat you? If you have, then stop those behaviour!
If she beats you without any reason, then you need to tell someone who can take action to stop that before something more serious happens. Don't you feel that she needs help? You are the only one who can initiate the help. So do it!
2006-09-13 02:42:58 · answer #7 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your in the UK call Childline 0800 1111.. they can be there for you if things get rough. Sounds like your mother needs abit of help, if you want to take about things with someone, without informing on your mother, call a child helpline for your area. You mother is not handling things with you well, but try not to let it affect you, as its not your fault!!!
2006-09-13 02:40:22 · answer #8 · answered by Ivy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell someone because if you allow that to happen, what makes you think it won't get worse? I was in the same situation. . I suggest you either move in with a close relative or tell someone that can really help you.
2006-09-13 02:27:34 · answer #9 · answered by TJ B 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Canning is fine when if u were a lil younger....but with tennis racket? thats violent and a bit too much...
2006-09-13 02:29:20 · answer #10 · answered by AJ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋