2006-09-13 02:20:40 · 41 answers · asked by eddy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When they're both ready
2006-09-13 02:21:38 · answer #1 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Look u have to wait till the right time comes the write time is when u really know what u r doing , when u r sure that this someone wants sex , when u r sure that u love this some 1 & u wanna sex.u can start with some kisses tonges thing like that till u r sure u really really r ready to do it. Good luke in ur sex & in ur realationship i also hope u have a good 1 who really loves u.i think these things will take u time to make sure of them like about 2 weeks but with more dates it might take u a couple of days.Good luke (when it happens send me a massage cos i am looking forward to know when it happends {deeppinkygirl_miro@yahoo.com}
2006-09-13 02:36:32 · answer #2 · answered by Maria 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I would have liked to have known your ages on this one, but either way, The Bible says that sex is something you should wait to do until you are married. But if you are determined to do it before then anyway, I know a lot of people now days are, I would have to say when you are both ready, and if you are younger then I would make sure you are old enough to handle that sort of relationship, and make sure you know birthcontrol methods and all. And if this is going to be your first time know ahead of time that this doesn't automatically make someone love you, or stay with you forever. I would pray about it. Good Luck.
2006-09-13 02:29:12 · answer #3 · answered by Brown_Eyed_Girl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A few dates after you feel you are ready. If you do it as soon as you feel ready you may regret it, also, if you let it build up the sex is guaranteed to be better. you can never go back to not having had sex.
2006-09-13 02:41:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should start having sex after you have got to know the person. You have to think to yourself is the person really worth it, and think what if they finish with me just a couple of days after. So I would say get to know the person properly then think and talk to the person about it.
2006-09-13 02:46:04 · answer #5 · answered by Susan N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait a couple of months because some relationships end after 3 months. If the person was an *** you are going to pissed if you gave it up to them and then its over because they hit it & quit it, But then again thats for women. Men (sad to say) if a month passed and they didn't get it, its going to be over anyway because some(not ALL) may leave cause the girl is not putting out. I depends on who you are dealing with and how you want the relationship to be.
2006-09-13 02:29:31 · answer #6 · answered by trice 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you have to ask "when should?" then obviously there's a problem... Does anyone remember this?
Thou shalt not commit adultery....
hmmm... interesting... Sex was made for two people joined in the sacrament of matrimony...
do your soul and your significant other's soul a favor, wait until you have promised "til death do us part!" Fornication is a sin.
2006-09-13 02:28:32 · answer #7 · answered by lily 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It totally depends on how the both of you feel about each other and about sex values but if your looking for a relationship waiting i think is the best option
2006-09-13 02:27:39 · answer #8 · answered by proudgrandma41 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depedns on the society and country you're living in. If you're in some liberal western countries with 'no-strings'attached" policy, you can have sex even before dating :)
And if you belong to some ethical culture, you'd never have sex before marying the girl.
2006-09-13 02:34:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel you pretty much just have to go with the flow but I am not a big fan of sleeping together on the first day you hooked up give it some time to want and want one another it makes the first time more enjoyable
2006-09-13 02:23:38 · answer #10 · answered by MZ.LANDA 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I had sex during a speed date one time (15 Minutes)
2006-09-13 02:22:56 · answer #11 · answered by tkocp07 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋