Have you ever picked someone up at a dance club? If so, how did that work out for you? In your opinion, do you think you could have a lasting relationship with someone you have picked up?
2006-09-13 02:13:07 · 33 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mostly, from a guys point of view, when someone picks someone up at a club, they are not looking for a long term relationship. I'm sorry, but it seems to me that if you are looking for that kind of relationship, you are looking in the wrong place. If you're willing to go home with someone you just met, you do not have anywhere near enough self respect to be in a long term relationship as is.
2006-09-13 02:15:18 · answer #1 · answered by iswd1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships have to start somewhere…
People can be a bit slow when it comes to making their feelings known.
A dance club is an ideal social activity to break the ice, and to get to know new people.
I’m sure their have been a lot of lasting relationships that began as a ‘pick up’ at a dance club.
If it wasn’t for people making a move on someone else, chances are they would never have gotten together, and the relationship would not have had a chance to become lasting !!!
2006-09-13 02:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have, but I met her a few times at that club before we "picked" each other up.
She was the best girlfriend I had when I was in my teens. We had a bit of a rough end though, but have been together some 3 years. And the end had nothing to do with that club.
2006-09-13 02:28:52 · answer #3 · answered by Vage Centurian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Picked up? Yes. Usually pretty empty. Gets old fast.
Relationship? Yes, but it's a matter of dumb luck.
Looking for anything more than a passing fancy in the clubs is a real long shot. Between the booze, the music and the dancing, the atmosphere is essentially unreal; you can't make real connections.
2006-09-13 02:16:57 · answer #4 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion you cant have a long term relationship with someone you met in a club, because when you met them there intentions where not for love but for sex, so how can you pursue a relationship like that, and if they go clubbing alot theres no way you could trust them.
2006-09-13 02:31:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually did and we were together for three months, it was fun. Now that I think about it, I picked my actual bf from a club. He worked as PR at the clubs I used to go, he brought me free drinks and we talked for a couple of minutes every night. Now it's been two years since we got together and I'm very happy.
2006-09-13 02:16:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whenever you go to "THE CLUB" or "A CLUB"... both females and males are there for one reason... to pick up... not really to search for a long term relationship, but for a fling... to experience the sense of want, lust, passion and so on. In my opinion, you go to a club, expect it to be short term, just like the sexual 1 - 8 hours you are at that venue..... they dont last. Go to a club to pick up... for a thrill? they are there for the same thing... and will probably do it again when the thrill has gone with you..
I might be wrong... but i have experienced it.
Not good in regards to long term.
2006-09-13 02:20:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i've never picked anyone up at a dance club lol. all my friends do alll the time though. y couldnt u have a lasting relationship? i know the stereotype for clubs is "not relationshipt" material but come on their normal people and not all of them are bad....i'm a good guy and i go to places like that...just see how they are and decide and go for it.
2006-09-13 02:20:55 · answer #8 · answered by mr_fury666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have picked up many bitches at the club. I simply walked right up to the ho in question and told her to "get in my car" (as 50 cent said). That usually works due to my bodacious body and slick dance movez. I still occasionally holler at some of these bitches so I guess you could say we have a lasting relationship. CHEA
2006-09-13 02:17:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Socks, to tell you the truth, I haven't had that experience before. But I strongly believe that the place you first met your partner doesn't really matter. To me, the most important thing is the aftermath of the relationship - are both of you compartible, and how are you happy with each other, and what's the prospect that things will continue to work out in the future.
2006-09-13 02:22:24 · answer #10 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋