am I cheating?

Question

if I log onto porn sites and adult contact sites, but never do anything?

I have not engaged in any contact physically or written for that matter. No cyber if that is what yo mean.

Just looking, it kind of satisfys my curiousity. Mentally am I straying fromt he relationship?

Answer 1

I have a friend that says,as long as you don't know their last name,it's not cheating.I don't agree,but that's what he thinks.I believe most people have different ideas about what constitutes cheating.Not everybody's morals standards are the same.People can usually try to justify and rationalize anything they are doing,but that is usually just to make themselves feel better about it.In reality,the only person they have to convince that what they are doing is alright is themselves.Take terrorist for example.They believe what they are doing is moral and justified,and if they look around long enough they can find some other misguided nut to join in their warped thinking.

Answer 2

No, logging into a porn sites is an act of curiosity on our part to know what is in there which is actually similar to watching movies. Remember that this site was put into for the lone purpose of showing their film and to entertain adult viewers.

Answer 3

will in my book it isn't because i do the same but what it does for me is it makes me think about how she wood look in that longer ray or in that position an try to get it for her . an no it does not make it feel like the person in the page . some people or def rent in doing things like me an you but use it to you er advantage an have some fun in you er relation ship for you er eyes an hers some thing that will make you not feel this way . an now you er not cheating some women will think you or but remember tell you er other how you feel about her an tell her you love her to try to make the relation ship more exciting some times that helps or some toys . good luck

Answer 4

You are worried enough to come on this answers with your problem. Try to work out why and what is missing in your REAL life. I do wish you well and hope somebody with experience can give you a better answer than me. Good luck luv Camilla xx

Answer 5

Is it something you would do in front of your significant other? If the answer is no, than you are cheating. Also, if it takes love and affection from your partner than its cheating. Watching porn gives you a false reality and soon you will find you are dissatisfied with sex with your partner.

Answer 6

It depends on the relationship, and what your partner considers cheating.
Personally I don't consider it to be cheating, it's not like the women or men are there with you. But it could have emotional damage to the other half of the marriage. Knowing that you are getting off looking at other people having sex.

Answer 7

To answer your question, its not cheating. Ask your partner what she/he thinks. And if you cant bring yourself around to asking, then maybe what you are doing is kinda wrong. Does your partner not satisfie you enough, that you have to get of at some stranger? I dont agree, but hey, who cares what I think. I personally wouldnt want my partner doing it, I would be very upset :(

Answer 8

It all depends how your partner feels some people Say's you only cheat with body contact that what I think but I know a few of my friend think looking is just as bad!

Answer 9

Not really ... even if you get off on the pics, it's a solo act so it's not cheating

Maybe you should try talking to your wife though ... she might want to join you and you can both have fun then!

Answer 10

that is a sin plus when you do that you are maybe expect you girlfriend / boyfriend to be like that in bed they are most likely not in a since it is cheating you are locking at other peoples bodies not the body of the person you are with