my 2yr old will be 3 on jan.3 and my 1yr old will be 2 on jan. 6 and my 1 month will be 2 months on oct 4th
2006-09-13 01:50:15 · 14 answers · asked by Tiffany C 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I've been there done that, I was only 20 when I had a 2 year old, 1 year old and newborn. Its very important to have patience and be organized. You will learn as you go what works for you and what doesn't. You need to find a schedule that works best for each child. Activites for the 2 year old would keep them out of trouble such as coloring or playdough (if they don't eat it) The one year old that's difficult, schedule, schedule, schedule at that age it is very important for them to be on one. It may take a while but trust me it will happen. I wish you the best of luck, trust me you will survive! I did my youngest is now 3 and I'm trying for baby #4. I thought for sure I'd be done but when you have stair step children you miss out on some of those important times, so enjoy every second of it because before you know it they are off to school. Good Luck!
2006-09-13 02:40:40 · answer #1 · answered by a.kranz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! You have your hands full! I had 3 kids in 3 1/2 years ! I know how you feel! Sometimes it is a bit overwhelming. But, you will find a way. Set a schedule that works for your family! Try to remember that it doesn't all have to get done today. trust me I tried to be SUPERMOM housewife.....and all I did was burn myself out! You will manage. Just be sure to take some time for yourself each day. Even if it's just a soak in a hot tub before bed at night. Good luck.....and by the way, things get a little easier as they get older. Mine are now 7 1/2 8 1/2 and 10 years old. While things can still get hectic sometimes.....it sure beats two and a half in diapers! Enjoy them honey... THEY GROW UP WAY TO FAST!
2006-09-13 08:57:16 · answer #2 · answered by getrd2go 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) I would start by getting myself fixed. 3 is more than enough for anyone to handle.
2) I would find a good day care provider and try and go out at least half the day and work, to save my own sanity.
3) Love them with all your heart! Kid's are precious and should be treated so, no matter how they act up. You have a long investment ahead of you and starting early by reading to them, playing with them every day, and just being a good mother in general will give them a great advantage in their life.
Good luck, and sorry about 1), it's not for me to say how many is enough, but I have a hard time with just 1 :) She's a handfull!
2006-09-13 08:53:42 · answer #3 · answered by iswd1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I have been there, done that, and still doing it, only a little older now. My kids are 9,8,7, and 5! How do you manage stair-steps? A dose of humor, blended with splash (or two) of patience, and the most important ingredient of all? Time for YOU. It doesn't matter if you only have 15 minutes a day to read, put makeup on, or check email, you have to disconnect for a little bit every day to help you connect with the adult world and your own needs...this will infuse your ability to perform as a Mommy.
Try to organize your home as much as possible...this will make it easier for you to find the things that you need instantly. I kept two diaper bags - one in the car ready to go with no notice and one in the house to pack for special outings. Do at least one load of laundry every day.
Laugh, laugh, and laugh again.
2006-09-13 09:04:03 · answer #4 · answered by lovemcss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cartoons are a commonly used babysitter for children ages 2 and up. Turn on the TV and take care of the baby until e's about twoo. that's personally not what i would do in your situation but that's about how society goes.
2006-09-13 08:53:52 · answer #5 · answered by Mickie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
leave the 2 year and 1 year baby to play together ... keep an eye on them and u take care of the 1 month baby.
2006-09-13 08:54:03 · answer #6 · answered by Alen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have 9 kids and they are a hand at that age but you will find the right way to handle them i play a lot of games at the same time or we sit at the table...highchair and play. each child has there own time with me
2006-09-13 09:03:45 · answer #7 · answered by Dee H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Love them, feed them and keep them dry. As for you, a trip to the doctor to explain birth control sounds in order.
2006-09-13 08:55:57 · answer #8 · answered by Steve B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a 3y 2y 1y old ,girls.to manage young children keep them occupied and keep on a schedual.once you've found your rutine everything will be easier.
2006-09-13 11:26:32 · answer #9 · answered by cynthia p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let the father(s) take care of them when he gets off work or whatever and take some time for your self
2006-09-13 08:53:31 · answer #10 · answered by sjeboyce 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋