i have been seeing this person since july and we havethisreally strong realationship and i think that he may be the one. What should i do??
2006-09-13 01:30:11 · 9 answers · asked by stevielover3292 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should consider meeting him... but... be cautious. My mom met a guy online and they talked for months. She was sure he was the one. Then she found out he was married. I think online dating is a great way to meet people, but it is a world that allows for a lot of anonymity and peopel can really misrepresent themselves. A good friend of mine just married a guy she met online. But she had heard about my mom's situation so she decided to run a background check on the guy. I know it sounds extreme, but I think it's a good idea. He checked out and she felt comfortable meeting him and it's been "happily ever after" for them. This is the place she used for the background check:
http://www.peoplefinders.com/
I think she said it was around $40. I really do recommend checking him out before you meet him to protect yourself as much as you can from potential heartbreak or worse. But as long as everythign comes back OK, I say go for it.
2006-09-13 06:32:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend some good times with him before deciding further. and of course if you really love each other you know what to do. just give each other some time. Online dating center is just another way of meeting friends or future partners. There is no much difference.
2006-09-13 08:34:04 · answer #2 · answered by Amantia A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with it. I met my husband on the online classifieds and we have been together 8 years and married for almost 6. I do not regret anything in my relationship and we have been very happy together.
2006-09-13 08:32:46 · answer #3 · answered by nursingsec8066 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this answer is for a person that's 18 yrs old or older.set up a time to meet in a local scene.feel him out.see if hes what you thought he was on line.if he is plan another date.
2006-09-13 08:33:47 · answer #4 · answered by patricia c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same I did. You get all his passwords and see what he's been doing! And oh ma'am do you find out so good information that makes you want to kill them. Probably not cheating, but my STUPID BOYFRIEND loves to give his number out.
2006-09-13 08:33:29 · answer #5 · answered by Sexiiness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just keep doing what you are doing seems to be working. Don't rush anything though that may just run him off...Good Luck!
2006-09-13 08:36:48 · answer #6 · answered by JACKIE M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do as i did. I Met the one online also,,,met him,,a week later we were living together....he moved from conn to mass in with me. its been 2 great yrs together, Go for it!!!!
2006-09-13 08:32:16 · answer #7 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take it slow as there are sickos in this world!!!! Do a back ground check and whatever it takes first!!!
2006-09-13 08:33:01 · answer #8 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet him
2006-09-13 08:32:41 · answer #9 · answered by big b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋