i had this great friendship with this wonderful guy, and then things got complicated but both of us didn't want a relationship so things were confusing for a while, and then i was gone for a month and he was busy with work, and things seemed cold when i got back, and we didn't end up talking for another month, until i texted him telling him i missed him, and he texted back to meet up and chat....things went well, mainly a lot of catching up... but i'm not sure if he just did it because he felt bad for me, or if he really did miss me as well and wanted to see me. in the past, he always would say he'd "call me" (and sometimes he would, sometimes not) but this time, he said, "call me sometime"...i dont understand if this basically means he's not really interested in ever seeing me again unless i want to see him, and give him a call???
2006-09-13 00:40:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is from a guy's perspective. He likes you but isn't sure what YOU feel, as such, he doesn't want to be presumptious and think you like him as well . . . he would like proof that you still like him. YOu said it good in the beginning, it is complicated!
2006-09-13 00:59:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friendship may have burned out...It happens. If you're confused though and want to keep him as a friend, try talking to him about how you're feeling, but don't be too emotional, after all he is a man, that will likely scare him off...Be friendly about it and see if you can ask him this question your asking on here. Its very possible your reading into things too much and he doesn't even know he's given you this impression. You'll never know if you don't clear this up with him. Good luck!
2006-09-13 00:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by nevermind_my_id 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...u dont say much about why that initial time of getting together was confusing. you said you were gone for a month. (this seems to be the first "split up" if you like). how did this parting occur, did YOU initiate it? how did he feel about it. by the sounds of things he finds you confusing. you've not been making it clear to him that you really want to be with him. you should be baring your heart to him, not to us as strangers. what are you afraid of?
if a guy says to me "call me sometime" there's no 2 ways about the fact he's telling you that its UP TO YOU to make the next move. i think he might have been hurt by your previous actions...so, what you're waiting for, the balls in your court.
2006-09-13 00:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by Wisdom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he wants you to want him more or He wants to feel more wanted (he likes that). He is picking up the vibe that you want him, (sorta) and he would like to feel more powerful over you by making that feeling in you increase. Therefore making him feel better about himself and also so that you want him more. That way he is in control of the situation. He probably likes you somewhat and may not be crazy for you (he probly thinks booty call) and wants to figure out how much you like him. He is probably confused of what your feelings are about him and some of his own. This is a really good question I think. Okay hope that helps and makes sense
2006-09-13 00:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by concerned christian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. He's not really interested in you unless you call him. You can always wait and see if he calls
you first! But it sounds like its over.
2006-09-13 00:48:18 · answer #5 · answered by ????? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a cold turkey!!! You shouldn't have left each other but now it seems that it's over. Better leave as good friends rather than enemies. Sorry !
2006-09-13 00:45:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he is re-evaluating his position on your relationship., he probably had a lot of feelings for you in the past and had a lot of time to sort through them. now i think he has resolved himself to the fact that he wants to remain friends with you but not as tight as you once were. Sounds like he has moved on with his life and you should respect that and move on yourself. good luck.
call me sometime....
2006-09-13 00:47:07 · answer #7 · answered by turtle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that he is in love with someone else. But you WILL have another guy who may like you. If u r interested in me mail me at jonathangizmo@hotmail.com.
2006-09-13 00:46:52 · answer #8 · answered by JJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don´t think he´s interested anymore.
2006-09-13 01:06:57 · answer #9 · answered by Green-Eyed Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means he will not call call u unless he has some work with u and he is really not intereting to call u...so instead to call him and bother him its better to not call him at all
2006-09-13 00:44:47 · answer #10 · answered by zinarch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋