i just broke up with my gf. cause she met a guy outside for the 1st time then they started sending mushy smses to each other.i love her alot.i gave her everything i could.but she did all this behind my back. what should i do ?
2006-09-13 00:29:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk about what is wrong. Should tell her how you feel. If you're too shy, what i did is i call last time is that i call her. Sometime i wrote letter and e mail. But i can say, talk to her in person sure have the edge and more advantage.
Love is a lasting forever thing. So take your time. and no rush. Girls look at 2 things, handsome and good personality. You know what handsome is. Good personality is the way u act and speak and how u behave yourself, also how u conduct yourself. They often look for good qualities. This is quite a tough area to improve. In other words, if they like u, means they really like u. If not, then, don't be sad and give up like others do, maybe there's still a chance u can improve. All the best to u.
2006-09-13 00:31:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a great guy so i think you should just move on.
some girls are not worth your time and sadly, ur ex falls into that category.
i believed that in a relationship, all issues can be resolved with the exception of infidelities.
once she's betrayed you over some dude, she ain't worth it.
the moment she started sending all tt crappy mushy smses to that dude, she'd prolly just chuck u off her heart and mind.
cheer up dude.
the break-up is a gd thing.
u definitely deserve someone better.
2006-09-13 07:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by nadia z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think she loved you at all, man!
So, close that chapter of your life and start a new one without her. Go on with your life, its not the end of the world, is it?
You will be happier with your life. However, don't commit yourself to another too soon. Make many more friends and enjoy life while you are young.
This will widen your circle and choice when you are looking for a partner. At the same time, it gives you the opportunity to get to know friends better first b4 committing yourself. This will save you the agony of a failed relationship. Learn from your previous one!
2006-09-13 08:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie I been in that same situation.
If u think she was chaeting u gotta let her go and if u love her then im srry but u can control her there are more fish in the sea dont stay on just one girl u will find another one ok sweetie dont beat ur self up abouot 1 female ok!!
Now if u think u can give her another chance then go one or just take her to the side and talk to her very calm and tell her y u borke up with her and u felt hurt because she was talkin to another male. apperently if she did this behind ur back she was tryin to cover something just ask her y she did it ok.,
2006-09-13 07:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by Nessa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so tough and hard to do, but you really need to let her go. Obviously you broke up with her because you felt like she was being unfaithful to you, and I feel the same way.
The saying once a cheater, always a cheater comes to mind. It's such a true statement.
I know you love her and it will be hard, but obviously she didn't love you as much and you loved her because of what she did. You deserve better. Someone who will stay true.
2006-09-13 07:33:41 · answer #5 · answered by Chrissy D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you should carry on with your life. Breaking off with gf is a sad thing but if both of you reconciled, will you be able to trust her again. I think you will lost the trust in her and in any relationship when one party lost trust in the other party, it is almost impossible to carry on with it.
I suggest you should let go of this relationship and carry on with your life. Dun give up the forest bcoz of a tree, I believe one day you will find someone who deserved your love but this someone is definitely not your ex gf. All the best to you
2006-09-13 07:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should leave her ,because if she really loves u she wouldnt think of someone else or give him a chance to flirt with her behind ur back.I know u love her but if shes not honest with u u should forget about her and try to find someone who really cares about u.
2006-09-13 07:53:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should try to concentrate on ur work,studies and u will see that u will forget everything soon.
try to meditat ,do yoga and soon after try to find a new chick who is liable 2 u
2006-09-13 07:33:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget about her, Obviously she didnt care enough about you to not hurt your feeliings.. Find you someone better.. She don't deserve you..
2006-09-13 07:32:24 · answer #9 · answered by Tracy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just made the right decision, move on, there are better girls for you out there who would love you in return
2006-09-13 07:32:52 · answer #10 · answered by dede 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋