i have this feeling that my fiance is dishonest! I can't check his cellphone, because he deletes all his messages. And i have this feeling that he does things behind my back, I have my reasons why. Is there anyway that I can find out? The only communication he has with other people is with his cellphone. I just can not find anything on there ever, cause of the damn delete button!
2006-09-13 00:12:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U should face him with ur concerns, if his answers dont satisfy u ,I think he might be hiding something or doing things behind ur back, then he doesnt deserve ur love,leave him, if he really loves u then he would do anything to gain ur trust back.
2006-09-13 01:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound like he's hiding something. Try to get ahold of his cell bill. Even if it's a summary, you can get online and see the detailed statement for his account. All you need is his account number. The rest of the information needed you probably already know. Anyway, this way you be able to see if there's any numbers that you don't recognize and if you're feeling ballsy, call them.
But the more important issue here isn't the cell phone, but the lack of trust in your relationship. I know you've heard it already, but if you don't trust him, then why stay in such a relationship? I know you love him (you're engaged after all), but without trust, your relationship will fail. And fail badly. Maybe this is a sign that its time to call it quits. Of course, you know your situation better than anyone else, but you may want to think about it.
2006-09-13 07:21:23 · answer #2 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a couple to be together successfully, there must be:
1. Trust and confidence with each other
2. Respect for each other
3. Constant sincere and honest communication between them
4. Consulting each other on decisions that affect both parties directly or indirectly
5. Accepting each other's weaknesses
If those are not present, then the relationship will not last. The choice is yours to make.
2006-09-13 07:32:57 · answer #3 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must have done something wrong. If not, why must he hide all his text messages in his cellphone from you? Try to talk to him in order to find out the truth. If he doesn't wanna tell you the truth and you cannot stand him anymore, I have one advice for you. LEAVE HIM!
2006-09-13 07:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by Someone... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't trust him even if it's just gut instinct you need to tell him. If you don't feel like he's being honest then you need to leave the relationship. Nothing worse than lack of trust in a relationship.
2006-09-13 07:15:05 · answer #5 · answered by i have no idea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel insecure about it, when there's nothing really going on? When you love someone, you have to trust him. But if you begin to doubt, then your love foundation is not that strong. Have a reality check, maybe it's you who have a problem.
2006-09-13 07:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by diplomat_safe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
angel!why sooo much possesiveness?
it seems u love ur fiance more than urself.
anyway ,if u have any doubt ask him directly.
love blossoms only if both of u have trust towrds each other
all the best dear!!!
2006-09-13 07:19:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for being so harsh but people like you shouldnt marry at all , people who havent ever heard of or TRUSTED anyone! Sad!
2006-09-13 07:16:26 · answer #8 · answered by Beautiful Snowwhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to tell the truth.
2006-09-13 07:15:57 · answer #9 · answered by Hockey_Freak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please!!!!!! Stop if you gotta do all that & you feel you can't trust him let it go lordhamurceee save yoself & the brotha a life time of heartache......
2006-09-13 07:21:27 · answer #10 · answered by NATE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋