I have been with my man for a year and a half and i know im good in bed because he tells me all the time but i jus wana treat him to a night of sexual pleasure we have done most sexual things together like oral sex, doggy position me on to im on top, outside sex toys, watching pornos, what else is there? I feel at the moment that i am nt in good in bed as i was as i met him. He hasn't mentioned anything to me its just my personal feelings.
2006-09-13 00:00:32 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
have you been on the askmen.com website, its got some great ideas!
2006-09-13 00:55:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have a very healthy sex life. There is likely nothing wrong with the things you are doing now, but could it be that you are getting bored?
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2006-09-13 02:20:21 · answer #2 · answered by Mary J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being watched can be a turn on, as is having another girl for both of your pleasure.
Most of all, you need to press his button in his head not just his body. The most intense of sexual pleasures come from heightened emotions.
You could get him off better than ever, by having sex infront of someone else doing missionary!
The world isyour oyster, braoden your mind!
2006-09-13 01:08:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All right. First remind him that you love him and his happiness is everything to you. Tell him that tomorrow you will do anything, ANYTHING, he wants, but that tonight you want to do something that is going to turn you on big style. Ask him - "you trust me, right?", then tell him to concentrate only on what he is feeling. Gently, very gently and using the silkiest softest fabric you have, restrain his hands by binding them to the bed head. Then slip a blindfold on him, followed by some earplugs - the ones you squish up and then they expand in the ear to exclude sound.
With these measures in place, he will have nothing to focus on but the sensations of your body touching his. Get creative, and don't go too fast.
Have a great time!
2006-09-13 00:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about role playing? U dress up as a whore (no offense), something really sexy but not too trashy, wear a wig, have him pick u up at a club as if u two were strangers meeting for the first time...then renting a hotel and the rest follows.
I've done this with my husband once and needless to say, it blew his mind. lol
2006-09-13 00:05:46 · answer #5 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Role playing is a very good idea, i have dressed up a few times for my man, the one that really blew his mind though had to be the nun's outfit, something deep rooted about having intimate relations with a nun ( so he said).
2006-09-13 00:12:36 · answer #6 · answered by sonia h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what your man really wants no? And if he isn't afraid to ask for what he wants.
Most men fantasize about something, but don't ever tell what that fantasy is.
Try to find out and make it happen (if reasonable).
But be carefull, sometimes it's better to leave a fantasy as a fantasy.
2006-09-13 00:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me, like there is some nagging insecurity behind all this. Why are you feeling insecure? If he loves you and you love him why worry about the sex. It will be great without the pressure.
2006-09-13 00:08:28 · answer #8 · answered by Gill T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be u feel that u r getting bored with the routine.
try one thing at a time and avoid bunching all types in one go so as to maintain the novelty.
2006-09-13 00:08:39 · answer #9 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try swinging me and my wife tried that and love it plus u can lean how other do it then u can try it , i do know that we do not get board because of it and if u do the same thing over and over u will that's what i think but i only work for some don't all so if u are insecure don't try it
2006-09-13 00:13:53 · answer #10 · answered by sadley696969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a go at anal sex its great take it easy the first time use some gel and u will come buckets and let him finger u aswell and rimming is good when u toung each others bum
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2006-09-13 00:43:25 · answer #11 · answered by stephen d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋