Guy said from the start it would be a fling. I felt I could deal with that but as time went by, i liked him more and more and we went travelling together, watched plays together...talked on the phone daily......it wasn't just sex. But 8months down, I got pregnant and he wanted the abortion. I went for it. And now he is not contacting me. I feel very hurt. What do I do now?
2006-09-12 23:58:27 · 15 answers · asked by Beth 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Many people go into a sexual relationship with out giving themselves time to know the other person. You went into a
relationship with open eyes. He even warned you! I am sorry for
you now, but you have learned a hard lesson, that you have to pay the piper. Apparently you went for a man that has no conscious, or heart. What a shame! You can't change what has
happened, but I am sure you are wiser now. The only thing that
you can do now is move ahead. Please do that as quickly as you can. It will help you over come the hurt. Go ahead and have a good life, don't let the past destroy your ability to love again.
2006-09-13 00:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by Bethany 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you did went for abortion? that poor thing in you wanted to live... damn that guy for having suggested that and for you to be manipulated in doing it.
Anyway, all i can say is he did warn you so you can't really blame him. Don't go after him anymore, he's just not so worth it. You will need to dwell on the pain by yourself, that's the price you have to pay for letting him get away with you. as for him, he'll get his own karma later.
You know, girls like you shouldn't stay in a relationship when you know well you'd fall eventually and will only get hurt. There will always be someone out there who'd actually love you and treat you more than just a fling.
Remember, from the start, there wasn't really love in your relationship so don't expect any fireworks on your part. I just hope you get over him soon.
2006-09-13 07:09:33 · answer #2 · answered by kamahalan_12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey chalk it up to the game because that's what it was realize it for what it was and next time you wanna play remember the rules of the game always use protection no one needs to get hurt when it 's just a fling.
2006-09-13 07:08:40 · answer #3 · answered by NATE 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it is a very tiresome and a stressful situation for you.
Now that it has happened, I know it is difficult for you.
Please keep courage, take in a new activity , join an orphanage and help those children .Keep your self diverted and please .. Love is something serious and please ...... keep that purity in place..Please! And dont worry everything will be fine..take care and just live each day each minute to the fullest and learn something from what has happened..My best wishes with you friend !
2006-09-13 07:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by Beautiful Snowwhite 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very typical. Go back to being his fun go out friend and he'll come back into your life. Sounds like this guy doesn't want any type of commitment or responsibility. If that's the kind of guy you want then tell him you feel the same way...this time use protection.
2006-09-13 07:03:09 · answer #5 · answered by toobusy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Feel sorry for you, but life goes on. Just forget about him and find a better man next time
2006-09-13 07:02:18 · answer #6 · answered by Delfia 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's you body, you do what you thing is best, no matter what anybody says, but remember this, If you get an abortion, there is a change that you will never have kids again, do you want to take that change???
2006-09-13 07:13:06 · answer #7 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is correct; you are wrong. He has signalled in advance. You had ample chances to stop the affair and avoid the things happened aty the later stage.
Thanks for posting it as a lesson for others.
2006-09-13 07:04:09 · answer #8 · answered by shane_manila2001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
live and learn....find a better guy who's a heck of a lot nicer. Forget that bastard.
2006-09-13 07:01:06 · answer #9 · answered by babbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on with your life... you knew from the start what it was all about... and he obviously didn't want to pay for the child...
2006-09-13 07:11:07 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋