Ok, well there is this guy that I really,really, really like . But, I don't know if he likes me. I don't want to ask him because that sounds really obivious. I tried to get one of my friends to ask him for me, but she didn't get much out of him. I might think about telling one of my guy friends to drop some hints about me and put in a some good words. Do you guys know anything I can do. I really, really, really like him and I don't know what to do. HELP!!!!!
2006-09-12 23:38:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should tell him how you feel. If you're too shy, what i did last time is that i call her. Sometime i wrote letter and e mail. But i can say, talk to him in person sure have the edge and more advantage.
Love is a lasting forever thing. So take your time. and no rush. Boys look at 2 things, prettyness and good personality. You know what pretty is. Good personality is the way u act and speak and how u behave yourself, also how u conduct yourself. They often look for good qualities. This is quite a tough area to improve. In other words, if they like u, means they really like u. If not, then, don't be sad and give up like others do, maybe there's still a chance u can improve. All the best to u.
2006-09-13 00:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you going to start a friendship based on third party communication? The more keen you are, the more afraid you will be of being rejected! That's why you are so afraid to approach him.
By the way, if I were that guy, I would not like someone to come to me through a third party. Do you know why? Because I would not know whether that person is telling me the truth. If you like me, why wouldn't you talk to me? So, don't get someone else to talk to him about your crush on him! Tell him yourself.
My other advice is that you take it slow, by just getting to know him as a friend. Because if you tell him you are crazy over him, he may think you are childish to have a crush on someone you don't really know!
2006-09-13 07:10:23 · answer #2 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sense your fervour. The whole finding out if he likes you thing is tricky, specially when you really, really, really like someone. How does he act around you? Do you sense even the slightest interest from his side?
Going upto him and asking him out is the best way out if you could deal with rejection.
You could try accidental meetings and strategic posings. Make sure he knows you are alive and kicking!
Wishing you all the luck.
2006-09-13 06:58:49 · answer #3 · answered by daffythecoolestduck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advise is dont be so afraid of rejection, and go have a conversation with him. Ask him out, or get to know him a little more. Confidence is a good quality.
2006-09-13 06:41:27 · answer #4 · answered by zeakster01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like I tell everyone in this situation, just TELL HIM. When I was younger, if a girl told me she liked me, I would just melt. It's a form of flattery. And what's the worst that can happen....he doesn't reciprocate? Who cares....move on to the next one.
2006-09-13 06:42:41 · answer #5 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt with the dude, go say watup, invite him out on friday and try hooking up from there
2006-09-13 06:41:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby, go straight to him and ask him out,it's a free world
2006-09-13 06:46:37 · answer #7 · answered by wayne vicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt!!that well tell him u like him and if he flirts back then you guys are ok!!
2006-09-13 06:58:54 · answer #8 · answered by Randall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. It's better that way.
2006-09-13 06:54:31 · answer #9 · answered by mctorn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Impress him, or show off.
2006-09-13 06:42:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋