Ahhh im lost in a sea of dating confusion. Help?

Question

I went on a date last nite and i dont know how it went ill tell u how it went and u say what u think deal?
ok so i went out with a girl last nite, we had a meal it was first date so a bit nervous at the start for both of us. But we talked for like 2 and half hours it was great, we missed our movie and so had to see one later. thats when i thought it went all wrong. we sat down in the cinema and i was talkin a bit till the movie came on i soon noticed no too late thank god that she didnt like when people talked durin a movie and so i felt real awkard.
we left the cinema without me puttin my arm around her of anythin :(
felt like a fool, so i walked her home and we said goodbye. I gave her a big hug and left. She txt me later tellin me she had fun anf thanks. how do you think it went?

Answer 1

It went ok. Txt her back and arrange another date.

Answer 2

Sounds okay to me, she said she had fun in the text and you talked for a long time, she probably feeling the same as you after a first date, confused and hesitent, take the situration by the balls and ring her for a second date, make a little joke about the talking in the cinema (we had better not go to the flicks as I can shut up when I am around you) and good luck not that it sounds like you need it mate. hope everything goes well

Answer 3

This sounds like a brilliant 1st date, to be able to talk like that with someone on a 1st date is amazing. and you must remember she was probably nervous too and the fact that she text you first is a big sign because no matter how well the date went for me i'd never text him first (pride or something haha) so go if her a call and ask her out again this time for a drink or something more intimate.

Answer 4

That sounds better than good! To be able to talk for that long shows you are both communicating well and are comfortable with each other - and that will have scored major points and cancelled out any negative blips, believe me!

Then, better than that - a text already?! I think we would all suggest a prompt reply (don't leave it too long) and suggest a follow up date soon - that is, assuming you want to?!

Best of luck, and I hope it keeps getting better and better for you both.

Answer 5

I think it went ok by the sounds of it - the fact she texted you also sounds positive - personally speaking, if i hadnt enjoyed a date I would have said my thanks when he walked me home and not bothered texting - so the fact she did text sounds very encouraging! Why not ask her out on a second date today - the worst she can say is no - which I dont think she will - and it will put your mind to rest once and for all! Good luck

Answer 6

Should be fine? Since you both have no problems with talking even though its your first date, to the extent that you missed your movie?!? Sounds funny XD But it's a good sign in my opinion. Besides, she said she had fun, means she enjoyed it.

Maybe you can ask her out for a second date.

Answer 7

what kind of a man invites a woman to cinema on their first date? or second? movies suck. u check how it went if she ever wants to go out with u again. i usually text that date was ok even if it sucked .- just to be nice. but if it sucked i never go out with this guy again (i should have used past tense anyway)

Answer 8

Awww...it sounds like it went perfectly actually. Dont worry, its normal to feel nervous and kinda unsure about what your date thinks about you, especially on your first date together. She texted you just to tell you that she had fun, so from what i can tell she sounds like she had a great time with you. Dont worry, just keep being yourself, you´re doing just fine. I wish you all the best. :)

Answer 9

M8, it sounds dandy to me! To talk to someone for 2.5 hours speaks for itself....a major part of a fantastic relationship is talking.

Answer 10

seems to gone well maybe you should ask her out again before she thinks you have gone cold on her but don't get pushy!! This date you have the first kiss (so brush your teeth)