i am a marrie man.married from past 7 years.having one daughter 1 yrs old.one girl friend also.working with family business of traveling bt above aall I am not satishfied and happy with wat I am doing
2006-09-12 23:17:50 · 29 answers · asked by Fresh Dew 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Welcome to your mid life crisis!
It's not unusual to feel the way you do, but don't take any drastic actions. Just try and get out of your rut, and remember what you enjoy about life without going off the rails.
2006-09-12 23:27:50 · answer #1 · answered by 'Dr Greene' 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
First thing you need to do is adjust your attitude significanlty. It appears that you asked this question first thing in the morning and it sounds like you are the master of your own destiny. LIfe is what YOU make it! You are staring the day on a downer - not satisfied! Stop and think about things for a bit. Wife - kid - girlfriend - sounds pretty good to me. If you start the day with a frown it will only get worse - start the day with a smile, be thankful you CAN start the day. Make up your mind that you will be kind and helpfull to everone you see today. Make it a goal to meet at least one new person (a potential friend maybe) every day. Make it a goal to do something nice for a total stranger today. You will get a sense of satisfaction from doing this and you will make somebody else's day better too. LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE IT!
2006-09-12 23:29:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
married people are always complaining. Life does become boring after few years of marriage........try to accept the fact that this is what you have and you have to be happy in this. It is not worth to keep wife as well as girl friend, now that you have a daughter it is better to say bye bye to your girl friend. other wise in future you will definitely have more problems. Take your family and go out station for some time, It will really help you to freshen up from this monotonous routine.
2006-09-12 23:39:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
However silly this answer may sound the fact is that happiness is NOT outside to be found, family, marriage, job. It is a frame of mind. I feel you are , at this age , entering the point where you have to understand yourself. SELF KNOWLEDGE is the key to this understanding. Many teachers ( gurus) are there to guide you without charging enormous fees. Try website on SAMVITSAGAR or contact Swami Suddhananda`s ashram in Chennai India. I benefitted immensely
2006-09-12 23:38:59 · answer #4 · answered by YD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop cheating on your wife. Don't suppose you'd be too pleased if your wife had a boyfriend?
You have everything a lot of people desire and yet you're still not satisfied?
Just concentrate on what you have and be greatful for it - whenever you find yourself wanting more, take a look around you at what other peoples lives are like and say to yourself "How lucky I am"
2006-09-13 00:45:58 · answer #5 · answered by Phlodgeybodge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do not love your wife divorce her.be honest with yourself do not destroy the life of your child because you are not happy either leave your wife or your girlfriend take some time off work like a vacation to recharge or just get a different job you may be spending to much time with the family that can burn you out
2006-09-12 23:39:10 · answer #6 · answered by tim s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lose the girlfriend.
start living a moral life.
invest in your marriage
invest in your daughter
happiness is an inside job.....make the changes on the inside
write a gratitude list everyday of the things you are grateful for
pray
look at yourself and do some serious soul searching about a job/career....you will need to be very close to your wife as this will undoubtedly affect her, too.
You are the author of your life......make it a love story.
2006-09-12 23:29:36 · answer #7 · answered by miatalise12560 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not satisfied or happy with wat you are doing because you know you are doing is wrong, your wife should leave you and charge you with so moch child support that you won't have the money to interest any other woman.
Your wife and child need you. If you're not willing to give them that, my suggestion would be to pray for your own death. What you want to give to the woman at work should be given to your wife, thats the way god intended it to be.
If you're not happy with that then stop prayer and end your life yourself.
2006-09-12 23:47:11 · answer #8 · answered by Special-Tee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should sign up to one of the Aid Agencies - and help out in a disaster zone - My son felt the same way - he went off to Thailand for a year helping out there .. he came back refreshed and ready to take on life . Good Luck..
2006-09-12 23:25:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar thing at 21 so packed up and moved area, quit my job and everything (there were some other issues but mainly that I wanted something different).
I've never looked back. I wouldn't mind moving to a new area again now.
2006-09-12 23:21:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
One day your one year old daughter will be cheated on by a disgusting guy such as you. How does that make you feel. Be satisfied with what you have, it's more than many people have.
2006-09-13 09:33:34 · answer #11 · answered by Princess415 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋