2006-09-12 23:12:45 · 29 answers · asked by smartguy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I believe it is ok. It's a natural thing and yes I have done it. The reason why people believe it is wrong is just because of a book that may not be real. Sex is a great thing and I enjoy doing it safely with my boyfriends. People might think it's crazy, but to me, crazy is being unhappily married but staying with that person for life just because that mentioned book tells you to.
2006-09-12 23:21:14 · answer #1 · answered by alysseq_86 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Before marriage to have sex is not right.
I was interested to have sex before marriage but somehow it not happened, later I learned it is a wrong activity. Better I did not do it... there were girls behind me at that time... some tried to spoil me...
Most of the people like to have sex before marriage, I know their feeling it is our human feeling of sex, but try to do it after a legal marriage with a girl or boy.
I agree to the following suggestion:
"No, in Christianity, pre-marital sex (fornication) is a sin, and therefore it is bad for you (how many couples do you know who were virgins until their honeymoon, and lived their lives 100% faithful to each other, have STDs [excluding rape victims and other similiar crimes]? Not a one would. How many people who had pre-marital and extra-marital sex have STDs? A considerable amount)"
Do not go against God's Law...
2006-09-13 07:01:05 · answer #2 · answered by SA-bic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't marry someone if wasn't sure i would have good sex with him. It's not selfish, it's my right to ensure myself of a good life. I know everyone do not agree, because of their personal believes. But i think the sin reason is a bad reason. To me it's more of a sin if i didn't allow myself to a good life and to do my own choices, before or after marriage.
2006-09-13 06:28:30 · answer #3 · answered by johanna m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is part of life for male and female it is a sin to have sex before marraige but you have this choise to have it or not
2006-09-13 06:15:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well..
i think there is no harm in it..
but u should be of appropriate age..
atleast 21..
also a tharrow knowledge of the diseases you can contrat..
STD like AIDS etc..
and also a knowledge about preventive measures..
third u shud be mature enough to understand that sex is not just sex.. a word sounding like love also exist in this woarld..
sex is just a subset of love.. or in easy words a part of love is expressed with sex..
so if u think u know enough, go for it..
else use your hands for the better and wait till u understand..
2006-09-13 06:31:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before marriage with whom? You can have sex it is natural need a human has.If we should not, then god has not had given us the stuff for that purpose.Enjoy your life as far you can you never know when you will be called back.
2006-09-13 10:37:48 · answer #6 · answered by ghreewala 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, in Christianity, pre-marital sex (fornication) is a sin, and therefore it is bad for you (how many couples do you know who were virgins until their honeymoon, and lived their lives 100% faithful to each other, have STDs [excluding rape victims and other similiar crimes]? Not a one would. How many people who had pre-marital and extra-marital sex have STDs? A considerable amount).
And, much to my regret, yes.
2006-09-13 06:24:31 · answer #7 · answered by seraphim_pwns_u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not an issue of right or wrong for me regarding sex before marriage - that is for the almighty to decide and not me to judge. I have had sex with women I was not married to.
2006-09-13 06:19:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
In Islam, it is wrong, fornication is a major sin.
There is nothing wrong with sex. But jumping into bed for all the cute excuses people are putting here doesn't make it right before marriage.
Your body is only for your wife and vice-versa. It is not public property.
atleast mine isn't
2006-09-13 06:16:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No & Never.
If u like fresh food, not half eaten by someone else, u shud also keep someone's else's things intact.
Think if u discover after marriage, that yr spouse is not a virgin.
I fthis does not concerns u, then ok, else remain intact.
2006-09-13 21:47:00 · answer #10 · answered by Ashish B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋