is ok to have doubts about the one you love?..like: am i sure i do love him, when he makes me go crazy because a stupid litlte mistake?
we talk about kids, spend all the time toghether, just sleeping apart..
sometimes, i get worryed, maybe i am not loving him, maybe it is a mistake, it is first time when i am in this kind of serious engagement, and, i think i am not sure...but, also i know i miss him, everytime he pass across my door, going to his house...
-he told me he wants to get marry, but to respect me, until the wedding night...these also putting me some questions sign, but i think it is ok..." i resolved it when we were at the black sea, in summer"...still, no sex...just seen..
we are 25, me, and 28 him...
we think to get a house toghether..i dont know if its ok to be scared, like i am..
2006-09-12 22:53:49 · 5 answers · asked by criss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
is not english my first language...
romanian is...but, i do not think you guys know romanian..
so, my prob is: i have doubts about my self, my love..but, also, dont wont to lose him..
2006-09-12 23:14:45 · update #1
Everyone has doubts about getting married. The closer the day gets, the more nervous you may get. It's perfectly normal.
I think that he is being very romantic and sweet by holding back on the sex. It makes your wedding night all that more special. (My husband and I did this.)
As for your worries, if you feel that they are overwhelming, then suggest premarital counseling to your fiance. It's a perfectly acceptable way to talk about your feeling, fears, doubts, and plans for the future. If you are getting married by a clergy member, many of them will offer this as a free service before the wedding day.
Good Luck!
2006-09-13 06:28:29 · answer #1 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is English your first language? If not, ask the question again in your own language, and people will get a clearer idea of how to answer you. Everyone has doubts. Go with what both your head and your heart tell you. It sounds like love to me! Best of luck, regardless.
2006-09-13 06:04:29 · answer #2 · answered by inquisitor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose everyone has doubts to a certain extent, or things that they need to really think about before getting married. Only you can tell if they are big enough doubts to stop you getting married, or are issues you can resolve with your b/f
2006-09-13 06:52:10 · answer #3 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
noone knows for sure it's gonna work out --after a while you just gotta take the step and leap.
I'd say --ask people you trust and who will tell you the truth if you're doing the right thing if you need re-assurance.
Otherwise --I think it's normal.
2006-09-17 04:15:12 · answer #4 · answered by sweets 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly normal.
2006-09-13 06:01:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋