ok so my ex gf of3 yrs ago now and i have been talkin...shes been 'happily' dating the same guy for 2 yrs or more now and they were plannin to get married. every since we met the last time(our first meeting since the breakup) her relationship has taken a bad dive.(when we met nothing at all happened between us). knowing that this girl has it all figured out right now for her future, she has slowly been hinting at another shot w/ me. she says having it all doesnt bring her happiness and quite frankly i wouldnt give her what her fiancee does now. but the thing is, is that she left me for like no reason, but i just chose to give up back then. our good months were magical but we did go thru some rough times. does this girl truely love me or am i being used as a fallback option?sorry for the long story, gotta give u some background so u know how to judge best.
2006-09-12 22:13:06 · 14 answers · asked by wizzpack 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she leaved u earlier for some other man, then there r chances she can leave u again for another man.....dont go 4 her
2006-09-12 22:16:07 · answer #1 · answered by broken_heart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she's the one in a serious relationship right now let her tell you. Be careful, and don't tell her to leave her current man because if she ever regrets it she can blame you and you don't want that. She could be using you as a fallback because she is feeling unsure and having second thoughts about her fiancee. Maybe she's reviewing all her options before making such an important committment (like marriage). It sounds like she doesn't know what she wants at this point...
2006-09-13 05:20:36 · answer #2 · answered by nevermind_my_id 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex is experiencing cold feet towards marriage. It is a big step for her and talking to you eases her mind. She might and i stress "might" still have feelings for you or she tries to make up for one of the qualities that he hubby to be is lacking. Since she left you for no apparent reason it would be wise to let her have another chance as she may leave once again. Be open minded and very cautious when dealing with her yes you are her fall back option as she still intends to get married true?
2006-09-13 05:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're definitely the fallback option. Get out of her life and get yourself into a healthy relationship with someone sane and stable.
2006-09-13 05:16:59 · answer #4 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on why even try to go thru the heartache again an ex is an ex for a reason so move on
2006-09-13 05:37:03 · answer #5 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a rule in my life that I never go back to an ex partner because if you do you will never be 100% about the relationship
2006-09-13 05:16:15 · answer #6 · answered by sarah k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offense.. im not a girl.. but i think shes just feeling really moody and likes the attention you give her.. i know it sounds typical.. but if she's that way while involved with someone that's the way she is.. i'd just ignore her and look for something more stable .. good luck man
2006-09-13 05:16:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow difficult one. It could be that she's didn't realize what a great guy you was until she saw you again. And her relationship is probably not that good at the moment.
2006-09-13 05:23:21 · answer #8 · answered by Nadia L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way---1st time with u-- she wasn't happy-- she looked else where--now shes not happy there---shes lookin again else where...so u weigh the odds...she tought the grass was greener some where else... take her back---she gets thoughts in her head again about else where--- who is left once again--not her... Its u again... lol
2006-09-13 05:21:20 · answer #9 · answered by Why do I need a name 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes the other guy for the love of money,that's it.She thought the grass was greener on the other side no she's not happy.If she left you once she'll leave you twice.
2006-09-13 05:18:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋