she sounds confused. give her space to sort out what it is in life she wants, you or him. Tell her you will respect her wishes and not contact her but you will always be there for her if she needs you. Give her time to realise that this other person is not making her happy he is in fact making her miserable, but she has to realise that herself. You need to keep away as she has asked - if you don't you will lose her forever. If you leave her alone she will not be pressured into going the wrong way....to the ex-b/f. If you love her understand that any pressure you put on her will force her away NOT towards you. Good luck.
2006-09-12 22:08:52
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answered by Confuzzled 6
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Depends whether you mind a bit of "competition" or not. Remember the expression "Faint heart ne'er won fair maid". If you love her, send her flowers/chocs (whichever she prefers) with note to say that you still feel for her and try to arrange a one to one talk. You have to meet to resolve this - it's not something that can be properly sorted out over the phone
2006-09-13 05:08:58
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answered by big pup in a small bath 4
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she still might be feeling some sort of hurt or anger against him! I'm not sure but only time can tell! It took me time to get over my last exbf and my current bf had to wait and work with me! It take time to get over a realtionship weither you broke up with the person or they broke up with you!
2006-09-13 05:07:51
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answered by Black Betty 3
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Too much baggage man, and it will only get worse. It should be fun and frolics at the start not stress and Ex's. This is the best its going to get.
2006-09-13 07:29:12
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answered by John Q 2
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You must harrass her as much as possible. Make sure she knows your there and not going away. Even stalk her if you must. It will be better in the long run!
2006-09-13 05:25:50
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answered by mick241602 3
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wow, i am confused myself..so you love her,does she love u?
i think u2 should have a really nice and calm talk to eachother about ur relationship....take her for a coffee and talk, thats the only way to resolve anything...good luck bro
2006-09-13 05:07:59
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answered by ET 3
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When you part with someone it is a very confusing and emotional time
2006-09-13 05:08:29
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answered by Tammy B 2
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see ladies are just as complex as us men mate, i been there too, but look after number 1 1 st , that is you, dont get in too deep
2006-09-13 05:08:24
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answered by ho2asme 2
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just give her space and time to collect her thoughts and what she wants to do - she has to figure this out in her own head - if she wants you, she'll contact you - if she doesnt then she wont - harsh I know but only she can decide.
2006-09-13 05:07:38
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answered by Anonymous
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Give her ONE !!!!!
There is obviously something lacking in her relationship with her Ex. This could be the answer. She is longing for SOMETHING. YOU are the person to provide it.
GET GOING....................GOOD LUCK.
2006-09-13 05:55:06
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answered by tonyflair2002 4
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