At 27, no kids, never married, no relationship for 2 years. Should I be happy and enjoy my life while it's still easy? Or should I be worried that I will never find the right girl and be single and lonely the rest of my life? Do I still have time to find someone? When will it happen? I am trying to keep my mind busy with college and work and life in general, but I feel there is something missing.
2006-09-12 21:50:48 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it's normal. Are you looking for a relationship? they usually just fall into your lap when unexpected. Just live your life, enjoy yourself, and when it happens it happens. don't worry so much
2006-09-12 21:52:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you should be happy! You are still very young,
you have a whole life ahead of you so enjoy it.
I have not had a relationship for 7 years and I was
happy and doing great.
Sometime of course I felt lonely but then later I
got over it. After being single for so long I gave up
thinking about having someone in my life.
Then less than a year ago I met this man and lets
lets just say I found my soul mate. By the way I
have never been marry nor do I have any kids.
Just be happy with what you have and eventually
you'll get what you've been searching for.
Don't worry & don't stress yourself out.
I wish you the best.
2006-09-12 22:07:35 · answer #2 · answered by Kim 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is normal. Enjoy your life and be happy. You will meet the right person when your time will come. It can happen tomorrow, or it can happen 50 years from now; nobody knows. One thing for sure, it is never too late to find a true love.
If you feel there is something missing - it is a true sign that it is about time for you to start a family. 27 is a good age. I would expect somebody to be married by the time they are about 35. But again, it all depends. It all depends on the fact when you will meet that special person you will want to spend the rest of your life together. And that can happen at any age.
2006-09-12 21:59:54 · answer #3 · answered by OC 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey! I am single and 36. You should not be fretting about what you do not have yet. Not only is it normal for people in general to be single in their late 20's and early 30's, it is become more and more of a trend to wait later in life to marry and have children than when their parents did. This can be a great thing to do. By waiting later in life to marry and have children, you are more mature and can handle to work of making marriages more successful than if you marry young.
2006-09-12 22:03:39 · answer #4 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
same here man. I'm 27, never married, never had a girlfriend. relax. enjoy life and the freedom being single brings. that way you'll have more life experiences to share with your wife.
Just incase you're thinking, its not about money. I'm not even rich but still happy with my life. It'll happen when it happens. Relax and don't dwell on it or you'll end up depressed.
Do what I do. Get a superbike and go riding across the country on long weekends. Its an activity you can do on your own or with a biker group.
Have a nice day bro.
2006-09-12 22:02:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hello.
WHat is normal?..many men do not settle down and have children until thier 40,s.My partner was 40 whn our firlst child was born..i was 20yrs,there is no boundries.Can i suggest a walking weekend with a group of like minded people..get on the internet and look at active holidays..i love camping an dhave met some wonderful people.It is only natural to feel the way you do,the human drive top settle down and have children is there..it is what makes the world go around...do something different at the weekends,do not go night clubbing..not good places to meet future partners...but somewhere else..jion a group..play tennis?
what are your intrests?
2006-09-12 21:59:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont know why they think u r a girl...if they pay attention when reading u said u worried if u ever find the right girl? that means ur a man...
well most of all u shouldnt compare ur life with other peoples life cause each of us have ONE LIFE TO LIVE and it differs on the rest thats why we are individuals...
I guess society , religion and robotic people and the cause of so many people doing what the rest...and that is sad...
If u r happy the way u r is ok.....no matter what ur doing and with who...is ur life
but what would worried me is your feelings and u said ur missing something........and that love .....my darling....love is what really moves the world....and moves people towards goals and makes them laugh......smile.....cry......sight......give us peace.....and so other many things....maybe ur running away from love....cause ur being hurt in the past.....or somehow u feel uncapable of giving or u have a feeling of unworthingness....I suggest u go to a professional and talk to them and I find out...from what r u hiding
and running away from and why????????
about getting married at 23.....that is stupid.......theres no age for marriage...and that is just a paper the most important thing in life
is LOVE.........TO LOVE BE LOVED BY
2006-09-12 22:07:49 · answer #7 · answered by know it all 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
as a man u don't need to worry - u may get married and have kids at 40 or 50. the main task for u now to make a career and get as more money as possible. after that u might buy a house and start searching fro missus right. u still got time. good luck
2006-09-12 22:04:44 · answer #8 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dont worry about what is normal and what is not. Dont worry about the future.
Live in the present and ask yourself whether relationships are something you like and enjoy. Experience!
All the answers come by themselves.
2006-09-12 21:54:57 · answer #9 · answered by Sarango 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-09-30 21:55:22 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋