i often hang out with this guy during the summer break but he went back to his hometown in the middle of break and after that we didnt keep in touch. i really really liked him but as time went by i was able to forget him and i though he wasnt coming back to school this semester. to my surprise, he came back to school, and he is in the same class! i didnt say hi to him because he is doing homework or somethin. i dont know if he was looking at me or not becauese he was behind me. after the class he left. he didnt say anything to me and i didnt either. i dont know if i still like him but i felt really sad. i was gonna cry during class. i thought i forgot him but i dont know what im thinking rite now. i dont want him to ignore me. but im afraid of speaking to him..
somebody tell me what to do..
2006-09-12 21:35:19 · 21 answers · asked by kelly L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oohh...it sounds like a book i read not to long ago lol! um, maybe you should cry durning class...that would get his attention hopefully lol.....not joking either!! or just run into him on accident (like, making his books fall all over) and hopefully that will srike up a conversation......HEY!!! you never know!! he may like you too!!!! thats why he's not really talking to you because he's shy now!!!!! so romantic lol
2006-09-12 21:41:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should tell him how you feel. If you're too shy, what i did is i call last time is that i call her. Sometime i wrote letter and e mail to her. But i can say, talk to him in person sure have the edge and more advantage.
Love is a lasting forever thing. So take your time. and no rush. Boys look at 2 things, prettyness and good personality. You know what pretty is. Good personality is the way u act and speak and how u behave yourself, also how u conduct yourself. They often look for good qualities. This is quite a tough area to improve. In other words, if they like u, means they really like u. If not, then, don't be sad and give up like others do, maybe there's still a chance u can improve. All the best to u.
2006-09-13 00:30:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make such a simple thing so difficult. Without making a big deal of it, first chance you get walk up to him and say hi. Let him know that its a nice surprise to see him again and take it from there. If he act strange...no matter, after you greet him move on. Either way, don't linger...in this case let him make the move. Remember your situation was short and little more than casual. If he has chosen to forget it, make sure you do also. Boys will come and go. Don't be so quick to get upset over the way they act. Many of them are jerks.
2006-09-12 21:54:31 · answer #3 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make small talk with him. Ask him how was the break and that kind of thing. Be friends and don't rush into anything that you will regret later on. The reason for his silence is because he thinks that that is what you want. So you have to make the first move. I know, guys are abit slow. But who can blame them! That is what makes them so cute. Best of luck amigo and be sure to check out my 360.
2006-09-12 21:39:48 · answer #4 · answered by Rock Angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its possible he left half way through break due to a family crisis or other emergency - which would also explain why he may be distant now.
Just talk to him and see how he responds...?
Start by saying "Hi there, I didnt think you were coming back this semester"... this will give him an opportunity to explain why he left.
Youve got nothing to lose!!! Good luck!
2006-09-12 21:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG, I can't believe he didn't even say "Hi" to you. Maybe he didn't notice you are there in class? It is a simple courtesy to say "Hi" to a girl you used to hang out with. That's what a gentleman would do. I don't get his behavior. You are obviously got hurt by it. It was totally rude of him. If I were you, I would not approach him first. If you happen to pass by each other, then simply say "Hi" , and keep walking.
2006-09-12 21:45:41 · answer #6 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is obvious that you like this boy but becareful, if you rush you might end up hurtI think you should just wait and see what happens. If you rush into things it will make you look cheap. So my advise is to just be yourself and if you realy want to chat do it as a class mate.
2006-09-12 21:48:35 · answer #7 · answered by Kaylynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find him and say him HI! Say: I saw you before, but I thought you are too occupied and didn't want to bother you while doing your homework or whatever he was doing.
You ignored him first and he might felt the same way you did/do.
2006-09-12 21:42:32 · answer #8 · answered by no one 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello, i suggest talking with him. what could be the worst that could happen? what could be the best that could happen? my experience usually is that it is closer to the best -not the worst. don't feel bad for not keeping in touch. phones/email, etc. works two ways. concider that he is probably feeling something similar to you and is also not sure what to do. no one likes to ask someone to dance, -everybody always wants to be asked. but if someone does not ask then no one can dance... hope this helps!
2006-09-12 21:48:35 · answer #9 · answered by pa55enger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first at least say hi to him in class. maybe he hasn't noticed you. i would try just first catching up with him. rekindle the friendship the two of you had. then once you two have gotten to a comfortable level. tell him how you feel about him. nothing ventured, nothing gained. good luck!
2006-09-12 21:40:25 · answer #10 · answered by April H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋